waht are the options when we cannot bear children?

Malaysia
November 12, 2009 1:50pm CST
like most couples, my relative got married with the expectation that it would not be too long before they would have their own family, however, after many months of waiting they were forced to accept that they would never have the joy of expecting a child. they underwnet every possible and imaginable examination and followed many treatment without result. it was painful trial try to imagine, if the situation is fall on you and your partner, what are the options for you all when you cannt bear children? it's really heartbreak especially each birth in your neighbourhood was a new source of suffering for you.
2 responses
• United States
4 Dec 09
I think that I would just adopt. I don't really know if there are other ways besides adopting if you can't bear children yourself. I don't completely understand the science behind the reproductive system in different situations, but if I was ever in a position like that, I would just adopt a child. Of course it would hurt knowing that I'd never be able to have my own biological children, but you can still have the joy of expecting a child through adoption.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
my cousin and her husband had their first baby recently and they were married for almost 11 years already. my cousin take in slimming pills from where she was unaware that the pill has an ingredient that made her more fertile. years back, they planned to give in making babies because they always thought that it wouldn't be possible already but they were able to have one. :D