how do i get over him
By cupcakejones
@cupcakejones (31)
United States
November 12, 2009 11:35pm CST
for two years i stayed with this man. i was dedicated and loyal and faithful. he barely acknowledged me. i had more faith in love than i probably should have. now that we're not together i keep having these thoughts of doing things to cause him misery. i don't know what to do to get this man off my mind. help me
4 responses
@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
13 Nov 09
By what you say, he is quite a self-centered man who can't appreciate a good woman, and takes love for granted then. Well, I think you are better off without him. Just forget him. Do a lot of other wonderful and exciting things together with new friends, so nothing you see will remind you of him. He's not worth it. 2 years is quite long enough, and now what you are facing is the difficulty to break old habits and routine.
@cupcakejones (31)
• United States
14 Nov 09
that sounds about right. i know this feeling of hurt will go away but the advice you just gave me was wonderful. thank you so much
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Well, that is a sort of revenge i think which you planning to do and though i am not yet into a serious relationship it may sounds naughty but i do everything which he hate it is the only way i could test if he still love me. Then, if everything fails it mean you no longer have soft spots in his heart you better off not to chase him and find another person who would truly love you most.
@theonehush (959)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
hey cupcake. u may have a grudge on that man. but live life. i say forget the guy and move forward. u will be the one who loses in the end if you keep thinking of him. just think of it as "in time he'll get whats coming to him" :D smile and be happy with your life. you don't need man to let you know you are beautiful. and i believe that your a good woman and a pretty one as well. goodluck :D
