get bored
By Ifamous
@ifa225 (14461)
Indonesia
November 13, 2009 5:40am CST
I have been marry for about nine years, I feel so bored with my husband. Then a friend came, talk to me. We are getting closer after spending time talking to each other. But then I felt something different, more than just a friend. How am I supposed to do to deal with these feelings?
4 responses
@tanajimengawade (168)
• India
13 Nov 09
Hi,
Nine year you spend with your husband. Now someone come talk with you and you feel something different. Now tell me one thing, after few year if you feel that you are now bore with current relation with your frind and you will leave him and..
Now please think over it. To create trust and lovely relation it will take few to many years, but for breaking this relation one mistake is enough. And you are going to do the same.
If you have any personal concern please discuss with him or take help of your friends or relatives for this matter. Life is full of pains and odd things. But only our family member and friends help to reduce it.
Just think twicely, thricely and take good decision.
@tanajimengawade (168)
• India
14 Nov 09
Hi,
If you comes again on good track, it will be very happy thing for me. If it happen so, my aim of mylotting will be success.
Best of luck and be happy with your family forever.....
@michael74 (122)
• Singapore
13 Nov 09
Ifa225,
DONT ever step into another relationship!Remember you are bound already with your husband for life.Avoid that person or you'll be having problems in the future.
Regarding what your feeling with that person, DO NOT entertain it!avoid the situation where you will be together.Temptation is strong!DO NOT dare test yourself!There are a lot of vultures out there waiting to devour!
Right now your feeling bored with your partner, now is the time that you have to work harder to save your relationship!This feeling can be overcome through self reflection and prayer.Do not give up your relationship with your husband,save it.Think of the good things you shared together.He is worth more than your new friend!
Pray and ask God for wisdom and strength
FALLING OUT OF LOVE IS NOT AN OPTION FOR MARRIED COUPLES!
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
13 Nov 09
Dont cheat on your husbands by having physical relationship with your new friend. Just be good friends, without hurting your husbands feelings. Frankly tell him that you need his friendship to get rid of the boreness.
@chinthit (70)
• United States
13 Nov 09
You are coming close to cheating on your husband. Relationships are built on TRUST. If you do cheat on your husband, you will be breaking that trust. You will no longer be able to trust yourself at that point. If you cannot trust yourself, you will not be able to trust any other partner. Instead, take that effort that you put into this new friend, and redirect that effort into spicing up your relationship with your husband. It will be so much better for both of you.
