Do you feel happy but sad at the same time?

Thank you. We lost him for almost 6 years now. It is a feeling where you seem not to know where you are. You seem too happy on something yet you are crying or lonely because you remember someone. And you wish he was around to experience the feeling that we feel. It is a feeling of being proud and fulfilled yet so empty inside because you are not whole and complete as a family to celebrate that happy moment.

Again prayers for you. You are truly a strong person!

Thanks, menolly. I need to be for my children. Have a nice day!

Hi, ayebelle. I admit I am sometimes like that to my children who are a little older than you are by 2 or 3 years. Sometimes, we need to understand that as parents, we are really concerned of your well-being and your safety, especially that you are a female. Sometimes my son says that I don't trust him but incidents in the past might have made me feel that way. I always believe that trust is built in time based on past experiences and observations. It will be a few years from now that you may decide to have your own family and in time, you will understand how it is to be a parent. Like any other relationship, a parent-daughter or parent-son relationship needs mutual understanding and respect.

Hi, ayebelle. I admit I am sometimes like that to my children who are a little older than you are by 2 or 3 years. Sometimes, we need to understand that as parents, we are really concerned of your well-being and your safety, especially that you are a female. Sometimes my son says that I don't trust him but incidents in the past might have made me feel that way. I always believe that trust is built in time based on past experiences and observations. It will be a few years from now that you may decide to have your own family and in time, you will understand how it is to be a parent. Like any other relationship, a parent-daughter or parent-son relationship needs mutual understanding and respect.

I am sorry too for the loss of your grandparents. I was close to my grandmother and I miss her now. It was really a different time and fun to be with them.

Sorry to hear about your mom. Sometimes we can't help being in some situations in life where we experience feeling both happy and sad at the same time. We need to move on and enjoy life.

I am glad that you have a nice job. Sometimes we just have to choose to be away from our families because it is required in the circumstances. In time, you will get used to it. You have their support and you can always visit them when you need to. Thanks, donmara.

yes that's is correct

I am glad with what is happening to you. I should congratulate you this early for having found him. In any relationship, sacrifice is one important ingredient that you have to add. You do it to attain your dreams and be happy in the end. Enjoy!

Yes, zhaowei. We just can't help but feel these feelings at the same time sometimes. It all depends on the situations that we are in.

We just have to go through these emotions or feelings one time or another in our life. That's life. Thanks, letran.

Yes, you are right there. Or in a situation where your baby has grown up into a mature person and you will feel sad when he leaves you to be with someone to have a family of his own. Let us just be happy with the thought that life has to be that way. Our parents have gone through that phase, too.

Yes, I think we are on the same vein here. Situations make us experience these feelings and we just can't help it. Thanks, triplejazz!

Yes, you are right. I have been into that situation before. I felt sad getting out of that relationship but happy because I spared myself from a delicate and "dangerous" situation. Weighing things,I don't see any future with him. Surely, it was a sacrifice of one's feelings.

Thanks, carenxinxin. You are not alone having felt these feelings at the same time. Life is sometimes like that.

Hi, srija. Yes, it is hard to deal with the mixture of those feelings. Good you haven't been into that situation. Thanks for sharing.

I have that same feeling some Christmases in the past. I feel happy because it is Christmas time but sad at the same time because of people who are no longer with us to celebrate it. Thanks, badnobe!

I don't think it is. We just feel it some times in our life because we are humans and still alive. It must be an offshoot happenings or situations that we are in. We just can't help having these feelings --- they are involuntary actions. We cease to experience feelings when we stop breathing.