Have you delebrately not responded back..
By asweetie
@asweetie (1187)
India
November 13, 2009 11:09am CST
have you ever delebrately not responded back to someone response on your discussion to show you are angry with him or her.. recently i did.. i posted one discussion on which i got nearly 60 response ( best so far for me) and i replied to all responses but one.. Have you ever done this or not replied to few responses while replied to others.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
13 Nov 09
There have been times when I didn't respond back to someone if their response was not understandable, they were nasty in their response or I had nothing to say because I already agreed with what they said. I don't have time to respond to people who are cruel or downright nasty. So my thing would be to ignore. This site is for me to learn and to communicate not to get involved in arguements or be agitated in anyway. Thank God this has happened very few times.
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@asweetie (1187)
• India
13 Nov 09
hi lenin,
thanks for the response and i can understand your point of view ... i too donot reply to someone who would be nasty or cruel to me or abusive to me for no reason.. like in a discussion on scam site someone responded about my dress in vulgur way..though mylot did delete that response but here i am talking about someone who has lied to me and thats y i was showing my anger.
@jb78000 (15139)
•
13 Nov 09
no. if i am angry with someone for something they did outside the discussion i might be painfully polite to them but i wouldn't ignore them. if it was for rudeness in the discussion i would say so. there has been a discussion i stopped commenting on but that was for a completely different reason. that said i imagine just completely ignoring them like that is an effective way to get your point across and i wouldn't rule it out under some circumstances.
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@asweetie (1187)
• India
13 Nov 09
hi jb78000,
thanks for the response and it was not that i am angry with him because he has been rude to me or has responded to my discussions in a vague or useless manner..it is just that he lied to me about on referral exchange and then he was banned on exchange forum for this... so i just wanted to show that i am angry.
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@jdyrj777 (6528)
• United States
13 Nov 09
I can think of 2 people here that i had to do that because one was being verbally abusive for no reason whatsoever and the other was like verbally assulting me because i would not believe things her way. She even followed me into another conversation with it. What else could i do???
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@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
14 Nov 09
hi asweetie,
i responded back to all comments and even comments to another comment-- why? what happened what made you not respond to it? oh sorry for my being so nosy LOL.
@asweetie (1187)
• India
14 Nov 09
hi ms,
thanks for the response and well it was about a big lie a guy told me on line and the lie was only for few cents not even dollars and i didnt like it when i get to know about it , so i just thought i would show him that i am angry..i hope he got the message
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
14 Nov 09
really? okay i understand now why you did that... i just hope that he was able to pick up your point-your message! thanks for the enlightenment.
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
14 Nov 09
I have and most of the time it's because I didn't want to say anything rude or had nothing nice to say. Usually, I would ignore someone if they had something real arrogant to say. Just a few hours ago, some idiot said that since I'm from Hong Kong, I must be hairy between my legs and be a complete bore in bed. Now, THAT was a real idiot.
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
Hi asweetie! I remember responding to one of your topics before, I just can't recall if you commented on me , I hope I am not the one you are pertaining too .
Anyway, actually I never do that yet. For I believe that ppeople are entitled to their own opinion. They are free to say their thought as long as it is not foul or very offensive. But yes, I did not respond back to someone before but not because I I don't like the response but I feel that I have nothing to say anymore. I just don't find anything else to say... It is not really intentional at all...
However, if you find a response offensive, I think it is really better not to comment back on him or her...
@asweetie (1187)
• India
14 Nov 09
o lovelyn,
thanks for the response and no you are not the one..i am sorry when i was new to mylot probably then i hadnt replied to the discussions i had started and it was rude of me , well i was ignorant that it is not enough to start one discussion but got to thanks too who responded and i am sorry for not responding to the earlier discussion. well if you read above posts then it is not thing of rudeness or opinion.. this is discussion and everyone can express his or her views in civilized manner i got no problem in that.
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
14 Nov 09
It is nice to know that it wasn't me .
When I was days to 2 weeks old in here, I failed to comment back to my respondents too but sometimes when I don't see any topic that interest me, I browse back to my old discussions and begin to answer them back.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 09
I am fair to everyone that responded to my discussion. Maybe there are times someone might have thrown mud on my face but that is anger on the spur of the moment and I don't take matters too personal as I believe in mylot there is no permanent enemies. I treasure the camaraderie fostered in this wonderful community.
@asweetie (1187)
• India
14 Nov 09
hi zandi,
thanks for the response and yes me too is fair to everyone who so every responses to my discussion but just this man because he has lied to me just for couple of cents which is real bad thing to do.. i dont mind person who dont agree with me because this is discussion and everyone has his or her own views..and all have right to express with in set parameters.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
14 Nov 09
Hi asweeties,
If you don’t respond then how that person could came to know about your angry. It is natural to hurt by people here and we have to take the same on right spirit. If somebody hurt you please allow yourself to become cool and respond later. If I felt hurt I am following this method to avoid further confrontation. After two days we can reply them in a relax mood. So far I never kept quiet on any reply on anger.
Congrats for crossing 500 posts.
@anotherxidentity (1434)
• United States
13 Nov 09
For me I try to respond to all my responses in my discussion as long as I still have something to say. Sometimes when people post the same reply over and over again I'm not going to say the exact thing again. I'm only going to make a response if its worth making a response. Not responding to someone because you're mad and you think its giving you a leg up online is just ridiculous and immature.
@asweetie (1187)
• India
16 Nov 09
hi another,
thanks for the response and yes i agree with you and it gets boring since you got to say same thing time and again to each and every response .. well it might be immature but that guy is not even friend..all he met me on referral exchange prog and he lied to me just for few cents.. so i just wanted to tell him i m angry thats all.
@jugsjugs (12967)
•
14 Nov 09
I do tend to try to respond to alot of my friends discussion,but just like other people i have lots of other things i have to do as well as be on here.I do tend to answer as many as i can as well as start a few discussions of my own as that way most people are happy with that.I would never not respond unless i did not get time or that it was a discussion that i did not know anything about.
@asweetie (1187)
• India
14 Nov 09
hi jugs,
thanks for the response and and yes i try to respond to every response i get and i got about 60 response in my last discusssion and i only didnt reply to him simply to show him that hey i m damm angry with you with out fighting or using harsh words.. i hope the message goes across him that i am angry.
@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
13 Nov 09
I have never had that situation in here and I hope I never do. I really wouldn't know how to handle it except to maybe confrong that person, and tell them, that what they did was wrong, but I don't think I would ignore them. I would forgive them and go on, and not let it get to me. I am glad that I have never had the problem that you have had. I am not saying you were wrong for doing what you did, as you handled it the best way you could. Lets just hope that he will eventually apologize to you and then you both can forget it even happened. I know that will be hard, but you both have to be willing to rry. I do feel for you though, as he shouldn't have done it. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.
@checkmail (2039)
• India
14 Nov 09
Hello asweetie this is checkmail and no never have delebrately done that thing.Till now one of mine discussion fetched max 42 responses and though it was tiresome for me to respond them, responded all of them.Yeah some of little were not agreeing with mine discussion material, and some simply responding to it.But still I have responded such responses to my discussions.we gota keep our self up and going always never mind the ignorance or anger.
@asweetie (1187)
• India
15 Nov 09
Hi checkmail.
Thanks for the response and mine got 59 responses at most and i replied 58 out of them..which u know why now i didnt reply to 59th.. i dont mind if you do not agree with me on my discussion and i would try to put my point and u put urs without being rude or abusive..this is discussion but the one i ignored was another reason.
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