7 going on 27!

United States
November 13, 2009 8:12pm CST
My seven year old daughter is my oldest out of three children. She for the most part takes care of her room, picks up after herself and does what a seven year should do. She does extremely well in school and her extra activities. When speaking with her you would think you were talking with someone in their twenties! Last year she followed the entire Presidential election. She is in 2nd grade but the teachers started giving her 3rd grade work. One day I was looking through her graded school work and what I saw amazed me. There was a note attached to the stack of papers from her teachers. The note read: Dear XXXX, Thank you for taking the time in reviewing your incorrect answers. The 2nd grade teachers are very proud of you. It is not necessary to return your papers to us with comments as to why and how you concluded your answers. If you would like to discuss them please come see one of the teachers. I looked at her comments and this is what one read: Thank you for letting me know. This is how I understood the book and believe my answer is correct. Again we are all very very proud of her but here is my situation: She never thinks she is wrong. Debates everything. This starts at 6:00 in the morning until bed. This child literally exhausts us mentally. Does anyone have any suggestions for my husband and I on trying to make her understand that its okay to be wrong sometimes?
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@shell2784 (752)
• United States
14 Nov 09
I go thru that now and my daughter is only 3!!! And the problem is... much like your daughter, that 99% of the time, she IS right. About all kinds of amaizing things! I can actually have a conversation with my 3 year old like I could with you! I'd tell her to go all out with debating the teachers about answers and grades and everything else... that's how I got thru my senior year! lol ... but when it comes to at home - Mommy and Daddy win the debates. When Joslynn debates us (daily) I listen to her side of it fairly and make my judgement from that. Like if Jos asks if she can have just one more cup of chocolate milk before bed. And I'll say "no you've had enough go to bed"... "but I really really think I should get one"... and when I say "why?" you never know what you're going to get. Tonights was "well, because I was quiet around the house because I know that Daddy doesn't feel good. And I was really good at Laura's and I didn't even try and fight you tonight when you washed my hair in the tub. You know mom, I was just a really good kid all around today". Can you REALLY say no to that? So she got her stinkin' chocolate milk. I know I'm writing alot - but you know how mom's are with their babies.... during the summer, so just after Jos' 3rd birthday we were at walmart and she asked for a dora umbrella. I said, you don't even know what an umbrella is for" and she says "actually mom, you're supposed to go outside and open it like this (popped it open) and put it above your head so you don't get wet when its raining or snowing". So i told her if she could close it back up she could get it. So she pushed the button, wrapped it up and threw it in the cart! I know its mentally exhausting, but I try and have as much fun with it as I can. She understands that I'll always hear her out and then make a decision... that's all I ever asked for with my mom. You'd be amazed with some of the stuff they come up with. :)
• United States
14 Nov 09
Hmmm - very interesting! Thanks for the link! I looked at it quick, but I'll look more at it! Thanks !