To apologize or not to apologize?

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I met with real good friends last night at a very famous landmark in our city. I had one friend whom we got misunderstanding for the last 3 mos. and we haven't talked since. The history was, I met another friend 4 mos. ago with his special friend, I was like the chaperon, I said to Lara (my friend who I got misunderstand with) that I'd invite her to come join us and she said she won't. I texted her that night that we really had a good time and that we were treated dinner by my friend's special friend, she replied " you're really a betch, I mean it this time" but I thought that it was the same old goofy jokes she executed then here after, so I didn't mind it at all. She posted something on facebook that says you're a user and like don't come near me I might catch your disease. It wasn't direct but I knew it was me. I got to see her days after that incident, then we chatted with a common friend of ours, Beth, and Lara said to her that I was only using her and that I only come to her when I needed her. Beth said to me that her words spoken were not like a true friend. And so I got angry.. She didn't even realize that it was an issue to me and that what I needed was a sincere apology but what she said to Jane who told me that Lara said I owe her the apology because I was the one who started the fight. I condemned her.