Scatter Brain!

i write myself a ton of notes and lists. i think that is a good thing maybe for you to do. lists like to do lists have helped me. you are not scatter brained, chances are you just have too many things on the go! cut yourself some slack!

kaseyrene, I think it is a myth that women have to do it all. It just depends on the strengths of the couple. I know one couple where the wife said she was horrible with finances that her husband was the one that kept the checkbook, and track of the finances. She was a nurse and her husband had his own business. They each had their own strengths, and took roles in the marriage based upon those qualities. You may want to talk with your partner, and enlist his help with being organized. He might have some tips that can help you as well.