Let love go if the boy hurts you so much

well obviously, i would definitely leave the guy because once a man beats a woman he'll always beat her again unless the girl is stupid enough to stay with that kind of man...

It would depend on the situation your asking about.I think that if he hurts you emotionally, physically, mentally...love cannot coexist between each other. It's not love if you have to put up with this kind of abuse. If its any of the actions mentioned above, then no! I would let him go.

Hello bettydeng.. If I were you I still won't let him go, maybe because my love for him is bigger than the hurts i have to take it. If you still love him, any hurt that been given, you can forgive him. That is make you live without hatred and anger.

YES!, i been thru a life that hurt me, family and even my kids. I thought its gonna work out if I take for granted the hurtful things he do. But I guess,the Lord cut it off. Prayer is my best weapon and from now on I have a changed life. Im more confident doing what I want and decide without thinking someone who might disagree. For 8 years now, im living being a single parent with contentment and peace here in my heart. Better to decide early than suffer for a lifetime. A waste of time dealing with a hurtful person that hurt me more.

A guy hurt me really bad a few months ago. He just made me feel so small and worthless but I kept going back to him because I loved him and I didn't know what else to do :( After a while of being told what an idiot he was and trying to figure out what I wanted to do. I began to see what he'd been doing to me and finally saw a way out. I took it! My life is so much better now. Stress free, hurt free and I'm able to look back and learn from my mistakes. Now everytime I see him with some new girl I know he'll do exactly the same to her; play her and then just leave. And he does! It's awful but some day I know karma will come back round and BITE him.

if it hurts too bad and you feel youre all alone in this then its time to wake up and free yourself from emotional pain. just like what i did with my past relationships ive been putting up with their sh*t...so degrading to the point ive come to my limitations. i woke up to my senses that its no good and have to quit a heartbreaking relationship.

Hello bettydeng5, Hurt in what term? Being in love doesn't guarantee a life of always happiness. I believe that sometimes we must feel pain to learn and grow. Check yourself first, maybe just maybe you contributed something to that feeling of hurt. Maybe you did something to your partner that made him hurt you( hurt doesn't necessarily mean physical abuse) Don't just let go immediately. Love is enduring But if the hurt you are referring to is physical, its a different thing. I'm a man and i don"t prefer physical abuse. It's a no-no specially to women. Hope this helps.