What can you do when good advise goes bad.
By Albert49
@Albert49 (13)
United States
November 14, 2009 10:19am CST
Have you ever had a friend that you care about? What can u do if you offer your friend advise that you thought would help him/her only to have them get mad at you. that's what happened to me and I feel bad about that because I just wanted to see her discover new ways to deal with a financial crisis. now our friendship is dissolved and I don't know if the right thing to say really was the right thing to say, I'm going to miss talking to her because she really is a good person.
1 response
@askmzlala (19)
• United States
14 Nov 09
lol oh i'm your friend now huh lol well ok. well anyway the advice you was giving was in the wrong dialog. if you would have stop and listen to me and stop trying to teach me the way of the world you would have known that but you didn't listen. you thought i just had bad money mangering skills. if you suppose to be my boyfriend and i can't depend on you then who can i depend on? I don't depend on no man but i just thought this one time but you made me out to be somebody who just asks for money and thats hurt my feelings.
@Albert49 (13)
• United States
14 Nov 09
You through your money skills were under attack but no so, You only received some tips on how to make some extra cash, I told you not to depend on anyone because u develope a strong sense of independence, you can depend on yourself when you cant depend on nobody else. Because you fell into this time of need don't mean you don't know what you're doing, everybody run into a rough spot sometimes and I understand that, been there many times. If I have info that I think may help I might offer to share, people sometimes take that as an insult and I'm sorry but that's me. I like to help people even if it's not monetary, it could be as simple as a handshake but it my help.
@askmzlala (19)
• United States
14 Nov 09
thats what i mean about communication ok by you typing i didn't know that but if i hear it by voice then i can understand it more clearer. i won't have the rough spot if my ex didn't set me up in the first place... i had everything set but he did that to me i had to pay more for what he did. i'm trying to get back where i was that's all. i'm not trying to depend on you or nobody forever.
