best friend or lover!

i rely on both... i mean... friends can come and go also. we'll never know when can they still be faithful to us... it depends on the situation. if your friends influences you to become miserable then leave them... it your not happy with your lover then break up...

I rely on my friends to support me when I need it. I never really had anyone whom you can call a lover, so, like you, I have not yet experienced it.

Best friends and lovers are two different set of people. But can also be the same. They also have different functions but can also have the same. Whichever makes you happy and the other person happy and no matter who they are, you love them that's important. If ever you have two, yes you have to keep both of them but you got to have a limit for your actions. You wouldnt want to do things with your best bud that you do with your lover.

Well, I've always thought this question unfair. But as much as possible, I try to keep the relationship with both of them. But friends are still better. In a relationship, for me, your partner should be a friend first before a lover. That way, you can understand each other more.

i would go with best friend because i think they will be there forever...lovers can come and go

i prefer a lover than a bestfriend because a lover can be your bestfriend too.. he/she knows you exactly for who you are..

For me, I would like to have a lover and a friend..Having a lover is a different experience from that having a friend. You may try to have both so you can experience the difference. Being with a friend can bring you into fun,you may also expect some help from a friend. But for me having a lover could bring you into a different excitement, as somewhat hard to explain. You could not define the moments you have shared, the sweetness, fun and bonding. It's about feeling so why should we compare a friend from a lover?