Please give me a direction........
By Alicesnow
@Alicesnow (78)
China
November 14, 2009 9:15pm CST
Lately,I often happen unpleasant with my boy friend.We very happy in the previous.And he often gave me surprise.We have a year get together,eat together,study together ...I feel very satisfied.But I don't like the feeling when we "cold war"...I Knew I was wrong sometimes but I wouldn't apologize.Even I know he really like me.Should I make some change?
2 responses
@zba3561239 (23)
• China
15 Nov 09
I don't think yuu should make any change. The problem you have is that you and you bf is too close. I mean you always eat, study together... you are too familiar with each other, taht would lead to some problem. So you don't need to change, but you should try to be yourself which he fell in love initially. And you should give some private space to each other, don't always do thing together.
When i was in high school i have the same problem, but we have some difference. My girl did something made me angry, she apologized to me, and i always need to spend a long time to lessen her guilt feeling. It seems that i was wrong. But now we change a lot,because we are in different universitis. We just miss each other. Actually, i am a little envious you.
@Alicesnow (78)
• China
15 Nov 09
Hahaha.After see your words,I believe you are a gentle man.I agree with your opinion ,and I wish you and your girl have a good future.
@71149301 (51)
• China
15 Nov 09
Boy some time need you to concede,which can let him feel yours love.Sometmes you wouldn't apologize even you know you are wrong,that is because you want he to concede first to feel his love,isn't it?But boy may feel tired after long .So give him more heartthrob that he will love you deeper.