how do you handle problems in a relationship?
By smallcloud
@smallcloud (338)
Malaysia
November 15, 2009 10:08am CST
have you ever known a relationship tha didnt have problems?
it might have been ont of yours or someone else's, like a friend's that you watched from the sideline,even the best realtionships have problems, even if you are unaware of htem
they can be frustratin, cause a lot of tension, and if left unchecked can build to even bigger problems. so how do you handle problems in a relationship?
i had some friends who seemed to be the perfect couple, they were always smiling and laughing and seemed to be a great match. i didnt find out until years later that they wre in counseling to save their marriage.
if you were them, how do you handle problems in your relationship? and normally what type of problems will occur?
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8 responses
@tariqueahmed89 (42)
• India
16 Nov 09
by understand each other.
solve problem without blaming on other.
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@zzyw87 (1254)
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
I don't think there are any relationships that are problem-free. There will always be problems, even the most trivial ones that last for only a few days. As for me, my boyfriend knows me well enough to let me cool down first if I am annoyed or angry. He gives me my own space for a few hours. Then when I am okay enough, I talk to him. Then we solve whatever problem I have with him. The same goes for him if he has a problem with me. We always make it a point to talk things over. Communication is too important in every relationship.
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@victory12 (348)
• Nigeria
15 Nov 09
There is no relationship that did not have problem but always leave everything for God because i believe that He is the one that brought us together.
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@yogitapop (58)
• India
15 Nov 09
well i handle each and every problem , just by being true to my partner , i never lies , because if you'll lie once , than you'll have to lie to your partner again and again , which is not right , so all you have to do , is just be true to your partner all the time , he'll really support you in this , and if he really loves you , than he'll understand you.................
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@scoutsniper85 (432)
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16 Nov 09
for all we know problems make the relationship stronger than before..
as long as you had an open conversation with your partner and accepting the fact that you both are wrong, there is a chance that reconciliation may occur. It takes two to tango right? lowering down one's pride is the best thing to do..
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
15 Nov 09
Personally I think no matter who you are you will always have an Issue no matter who you are. Even marriages that have lasted 50 yrs. have had their Bad times, and the thing is learning to work thru them together that seems to help things out the most. When you have a disagreement, or a struggle if you are willing to come together as a couple and talk about it, and often Pray about it together, it will help strengthen your marriage and Relationship to where in time everything will work its course and you will be a lot stronger because of it.
The problem is too many give up too easily, and never want to take the time to work things out, and see where things will go from there. When you run from a situation all of the time it often only makes things worse and you often wonder if you will ever be Happy again as well.
@free_man (7330)
• United States
16 Nov 09
Hello Smallcloud. Not every relationship has problems. We have a pretty good relationship. We talk about anything and everything. We share the responsibilities neither of us dose all the work we work together and we work well together. We share everything we have. But the main thing we think keeps our marriage so special is we let God be our guide each and everyday of our lives! That is the most important thing we do daily asking God to guide us and protect us from all harm and evil. God is our guide in this life. Have a great day! Be happy!
