First love never dies?

hi mielshare first love does fade clear away when you find the right man and he finds you as its so much more than the first sort of puppy love, as this is a deep abiding love that makes you want to be with this person for the rest of your life and you now know the difference between first love and real geniume love for a lifetime.

Wow, I thought i was the only one that felt this way. I do feel that the quote is true. Not because I feel the same way for my first love as I do my husband, since my husband is my husband for a reason. But I did put a lot of thought into my first love, we share a lot of memories. He got me through some of the roughest times of my life, he was the first person to listen to me, make me feel like I was capable of being more than just a doormat. Maybe what I feel for him is an overwhelming gratitude that I can only call "love". It's been a long time since him, I certainly know that I am not anamored of him the way I used to be. Faded is a good way to describe the love I feel for him still.

I feel if you had "true love" whether a high school sweetheart, or a few boyfriend/girlfriends later you will know. I really also believe that the first true love will never go away, whether things didn't work out or not, you will always remember, and when you meet again you will still have your fluttering heart, your feet, knees will melt. There will always be that special one you will have feelings for, whether it be the one you marry or not. I know many who are married, yet still have that one "first love" that they always remember and think of. Its almost like they lost their soulmate. I see many mothers/fathers, grandparents that remember back in their childhood, high school sweetheart they always have those feelings for. The first love is the one you give everything for, pour all your heart and soul into, gives you the learning experience, an experience you will never forget. Sometimes you marry your first love, whereas other find new meaning for love.

My first love actually ended up being a good friend who the children I went on to have referred to as "Uncle" for many years when they were young. We both married other people and our lives took different directions. Do I still feel love for him? No, being in love and being friends are two different emotions.

I think it all depends on the situation. My first love did "die". I never think about him and last time I did see him (years ago) I could have cared less. It was a bad break-up and what he turned into killed any feeling I had ever had for him. Now with some people, if it was just young love and it didn't work out, I could see that fading with the person still cherishing the memories. I do agree with your thought that if there are people out there that still have feelings for their first love....Love the one your with more than you could have ever loved the other one.

First love is something that never dues and always remain in your heart and soul. I hope that everyone in this world should witness this and also to live life with that person to whom they love. thanks shailendra

Hi mielshare! If that saying is true, then I haven't really experienced Love yet. Most of my past relatiomships are closed books right now and I never really wanted to open them anymore. Maube I am yet to find that true love. Something that will really last.

Your topic is a beautiful one. I trust first love is forever. But first love usually has no better result, and we often lose her because we are not mature then. Ten years later, I also clearly remembered my first love. I also remember her face, and I also miss her just as a beautiful rememberring.

Yeah, my first love has gone . I sometimes think of my love . But it still was the past. I just want to make new life at the moment.

You're right mielshare. Until now,sometimes i remember the girl who is my first love. I remember her pretty face, her smile. But i've bad experience with her that make me strong to face the future life. I'm happy now with my family. She's only my last memory.