Do think there are many people who don't know what they want?

yes,i think so. actually i'm one of them. i don't know what i will do in the future,so i'm unhappy when i open my eyes every morning,coz i have to find the answer.this is not what i used to be. many people say this is the usual reaction of the graduated students.

I think people are confused for their life, they can't face life by themselves, and they hope live a happy life against others.

Many teenagers are asked which career they wish to do and they don't have any ideas. They have no idea of what they would like to do. An older person might have experienced a lot of different activities in his or her life. He or she might not have any idea what he or she wants. A man or lady might want to get a girl or boyfriend but hasn't got any idea of what sort of person he or she is looking for. He or she might go to a supermarket and not have any inspiration for their shopping. Being unsure all the time would make a person feel miserable. Making decisions is important in life.

I seem to know of one. He was a former online friend. We got close to each other and had been in communication with him everyday for almost two years. He told me his life stories and the most private things that happened in his life, including his girlfriends and a past brush with the law for a misdemeanor. I was hearing sweet talks and stories of "acts of goodness and heroism" (maybe just to sugar-coat himself),but on the side, had sensed some conspicuous "red flags" that bothered me. At his age of 55 (2 years ago), he was still single and could not stay on a relationship for long and changed girlfriends at his whim. I have decided that he was a man who does not know what he wants and he seems insecure and not committed to be in a long-term relationship -- not good for me or for any woman, for that matter. I said bye and stopped communicating with him. I am happy to retain inner peace for myself and focus on my priority in life --- my children.