I have no friend in this city~~
By laura850511
@laura850511 (108)
China
November 16, 2009 7:13am CST
I came to this city about 9 months,because I married,I left my family and live with my hubby,everything is well,but I still didn't feel happy,I miss my parents and friends,I can't find someone instead them,what can I do??
7 responses
@bubulizzz (508)
• Latvia
16 Nov 09
Have you tried to seek for some friends? Are you going somewhere out of your house?
@laura850511 (108)
• China
16 Nov 09
I'm not very at communicate with others,I have some "friends" in our company,but I believe that is different from best friend,that is only one person who is aware not really friend.
@bubulizzz (508)
• Latvia
16 Nov 09
You could take participation in some group of your interests...go dance, or some seminars about things that you like, and there you could find some twin soul...but speaking about best friends - some individuals can't find them at all, because their true nature don't need for such, their best company is them selfs.
@yyfyqb (97)
• United States
16 Nov 09
i have the same situation with you.i have no friends in this country. my hubby works here and i came here about two months. i have no job now and sometimes i feel very alone. i seldom meet some one. i spend my days watching TV or surfing on the internet. maybe i should do something to make me busy. in the past i hate working all days and wish i can quit my job, but now i don't think so.
@SACHIN2708 (1634)
• India
16 Nov 09
Dear you said that you came to this city from past 9 month and dont have any friends but dear I am living in my city from my childhood even I dont have any friends thats why I like mylot here you can exchange your thoughts ,happiness with your many friends no problem dear we are same .Would you like to be my friend? I will be best friend of your???????????
@niuniu1 (166)
• China
16 Nov 09
hi,laura,i believe any place have your friends,what you should do is to find them out,try to make new friends with others,others will treat you as you treat them,i left my hometowm and all my friends came to a new city alone fours ago,now i meet many new frinds here,i beleive you'll make it.Good luck!
@sarwanever (435)
• India
16 Nov 09
Finding friends is easy but finding true friends is difficult ...and you are in a place where you can get a lot of friends and i hope you can have contact with your friends and parents all the time with net and phone you can make friends with neighbours the shop you buy things the place where you travel a lot of ways are there
@renukam142 (3)
• India
16 Nov 09
its easy to find friends..you just have to step outside and look fr them...but be sure you dnt make the wrong sort of friends.....just go out talk to ur neighbors and find out some common activities like shopping, picnic....so on....best of luck
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
16 Nov 09
What you do do with hundreds of considerations. Now as you are away from your family it is you who is to blame. People are there with good heart. Try to make contact with them and surely you would have a lot of friends around.