Help/Advice needed
@fifastreet512 (46)
India
November 16, 2009 3:02pm CST
Hi everyone !
Im in college and over there im friends with 2 groups.
One group is like popular guys but they are very good and nice people.(group 1)
The other group is full of nice people too.(group 2)
but all the guys in group 2 dont like group 1.
When i ask them why.. they say they are just show off(which i dont feel so)
I like both of them and as a friend what should i do?
hang out with just one group or say what i feel when someone says bad stuff about my frends?
Please help me someone.
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3 responses
@cnterrell (8)
• United States
16 Nov 09
I think although its uncomfortable for you to be "in the middle", there's really nothing you can do. It maybe hard, but both groups are your friends. Continue to do what your doing and just hope everything gets better.
@fifastreet512 (46)
• India
17 Nov 09
yea im thinking of that... and i do try to call both of them together and solve whats going on between them but sometimes they tell me to mind my own business and stop interfering
@dmrone (746)
• United States
16 Nov 09
Hi! Well you could hang out with the two different groups at different times, have a party and invite them all (give them a chance to get to know the others), or you could just speak your mind and leave it at that. I don't think you can make people like each other, but if they really don't know the other group then maybe they should have a chance to get to know the other group, and go from there.
@fifastreet512 (46)
• India
17 Nov 09
well the problem is.. if i hang out with one group the other might think im with them and stop talking to me.
and theres another thing.. both the groups were friends a few months ago.. but due to some reason they stopped being friends and they wouldnt tell me what actually happened
