love

United States
November 16, 2009 9:50pm CST
Is it possible to love more than one person at a time? Once you fall in love, does that feeling ever go away?
3 responses
@simonelee (2715)
• China
17 Nov 09
love - torn between two lovers....=p
Hi,there. welcome to mylot!I think it depends on the individual and their relationship status. If you are in a relationship and you truly love that person but you're fed up there is possibility that you fall in love with other person because your going to seek love,care,understanding,attention to other person that your partner can't give you, and your attention will be diverted to other person and without knowing you already fell in love to her/him... Situation may vary.
• United States
17 Nov 09
Thanks Simonelee! Just wondering if the attention to another person is real love or just infatuation. Do you really know everything about this other person? Because at first everyone is nice to each other and you don't really see the bad side.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
17 Nov 09
I can't really tell if it's true love but it happened often to males and some girls too. Maybe the love you feel towards the other person is infatuation, your just happy to be with him/her nothing more than that or maybe it's really love and the love from your partner may fade. I can't really explain this well because im not in the possition.
@MJAL08 (275)
17 Nov 09
ofcourse...literally w can love many people in one shot but if you are pertaining to a boy-girl relationship thing, no you can't. Yes, the feeling goes away but you can never love 2 people at the same time, that's not love its cheating!
• United States
17 Nov 09
Thanks MJAL 08!
• India
17 Nov 09
depends whether its love or infatuation... loving 2 person at a time is infatuation... when u'll feel that u cant stay away from the one and need him/her all ur life, feel he/ shez the one u want to spend ur entire life with...u'll feel itz love...n this feeling remains forever.