to be bad person or good person?

Hi qinshuxian, In the world we live now, there is no absolute things especially when its come to subjective things like a perception. You might be a role model for some people but at the same time you might be a bad influence for the others. We can not satisfy everyone in this world. Just do what ever you like as long as it is not bring any problem to you especially from the authorities. It is more important to satisfy the authority because it could free you from other trouble.

there is no absolute good or bad. to see how you judge it. hope you have a better undershanding of youself.Good luck!

Hello, Qinshuxian, I am not sure what's your definition about bad and good person. As to me, only the person do something that is harmful to others purposely is bad person, such as thief, robber... And as to good person, I don't think it linked with coward. So of course not that good person will get bullied. I wish you can find a way to balance the situation you are being. Good luck to you!

hello their listen i have learnt a long time ago that you can't pleas everyone you gotta please yourself,don't live your life each day wondering or worrying about people and what they think of you,live your life in the way it makes you feel best to your comfort don't go around living for the comfort of others,then keeping yourself in misery trying to please them that is totally living unhappy you see what it is now doing to you making you confused,take this advice now and be happy,choose what makes you feel comfortable while living may the blessings be