How do you feel when somebody don't listen you?
By rosey19
@rosey19 (951)
Philippines
November 16, 2009 11:51pm CST
Is there a point in your life that you feel embarrassed because nobody bothers to listen you while you are talking? How do you feel about it?
12 responses
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
I would surely be irritated and feel disappointed with somebody who won't listen while I am talking. Personally, I hated people who never know the basic of good listening skills, in order for you to become a good speaker you should be a good listener first. So when I am talking to another person and noticed his or her disinterest I will move forward and never talk to that person again. It's so hard to carry out the conversation with somebody who never bothers to listen. It's a huge insult in my part.
@jugsjugs (12967)
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17 Nov 09
I get fed up if i am talking to someone and they do not listen to what i have to say.If they tend to not listen to me i tend not to listen to them that way they know what it feels like,also i tend not to bother to make a conversation with them as it is a waste of time.
@rosey19 (951)
• Philippines
21 Nov 09
That is also I want to do if somebody won't listen to me. I would not talk to him/her anymore. He/she will be wasting my time. And maybe I would feel him the same whenever he will be the one talking to me. I will do the same as he did to me, so that he can realize.
@SouravRC (247)
• India
17 Nov 09
If someone ignores you intentionally then certainly it's very annoying and insulting as well. Especially if the person is a stranger. Sometimes people do react that way. Trying to dismiss other person by not hearing what he/she is saying. This certainly bring anger but that doesn't solve the problem. It's a ridiculous situation. I really feel insulted if anyone does something like that to me.
@itzmee1009 (362)
• Australia
17 Nov 09
hi rosey,if we are speaking to crowd and in there one or two is not listening its does not bother,but if we are speaking to individual and he/she is not listening ,its really hurts me lot.
@MJay101 (710)
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17 Nov 09
Sorry, what was that? I wasn't listening...
Only joking!
Sometimes, I worry that people aren't listening to what I say. But that's really their loss - I have enough confidence in myself to know that I have something relevant to contribute (most of the time)!
I probably become more embarrassed when I know that people ARE listening...
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
17 Nov 09
Hi Rosey,
No friend no such event has taken place with me so far. But if it were to hap[pen I do not know what would be my reaction. I am usually a short tempered person. and if i found some body not listening to me I would surely thrash his/her.
But this is better not to talk if any one is not listening to you properly.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
21 Nov 09
Most of the time, when I am with my friends, I talk rubbish and can hardly expect others to listen to that. When I am in an office or at my house I act much more matured and people really listen to my opinion and advise. Dual personality, right in front of you.
@bryanlee92 (98)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 09
Ya, I also face this kind of problem. I will feel sad, but I will not show it out, and secret it in my opaque heart. but, i will continue to be friend with that person, if that person do not repeat the same thing next times.
@rafaelnadal007 (731)
• India
3 Dec 09
It depends on people, my mood and the importance of the topic what I am saying. When it is just matter of my personal which is very important and when someone doesn't listen to it I really feel bad. I think why he/she is not listen to it ?? Is it so useless to him/her ??
Else I try to adjust by changing the topic or remain quiet.
@healthbeauty (483)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
When the time that I was a leader in our feasibility study there are some of my group mates which is not my friends who don't listen to me and do not do what task I told them to do. I easily get mad because feasibility is very stressful to me and my sleep is maximum of 2-3hours sometimes I don't sleep anymore and then my group mates didn't do anything. So I told them that if they will not follow me and listen to me then get the hell out of my group... haha just kidding I told them that they are free to find some other group because I don't want to get mad again if they do the same again.