Can you feel the LOVE tonight?....Update to my discussion,..she's dying :(
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
Philippines
November 17, 2009 12:26am CST
Hello friend and dear mylotters,
Last night i receive a message asking me to come quick to the hospital where my friend is being confined,it say's..."emergency,pls come immediately".
I was there,not wasting every minute,and i saw her doctor and nurses in a very synchronized movements(it looks that way to me)
The doctor trying to revive her,giving her CPR,the other one monitoring her blood pressure...nurses preparing the respirator and apparatus being connected to her.
She was revived...yah,she is breathing,with the help of machine/apparatus,but she looks dead,her color...no movements anymore,no more response...just a sight of a dying mother.
When the doctor and nurses left,her husband held her hand and buried his face and cried in silence.
As i am watching such sight..my mind's asking..."can he feel the love that night?"
Was he thinking what life's ahead without his wife?...with 4 children she maybe leaving behind?
I can't imagine myself without our mother...i caught myself drowning,with my own family and kids,still,i can't imagine what will gonna happen if our mom die.
What more with kids aged 15,10,8 and a one year old baby...this dying mother will be leaving.I rushed to her side,held her hand and whispered "live for your kids"
trying to hold back tears,thinking she might feel some courage and hope.
I left the hospital this morning again with heavy heart...
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12 responses
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
Hello my bonita...I feel what you felt. It would not be easy to see dying friend thinking all of her kids who would be left behind if she would pass away. Yeah it would not be easy because you could not hardly imagine if that would also be happened with your own family...Well, we must be ready of whatever happen and accept it. Let us just hope she could still recover..cheer up my bonita...
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
That was a very sad scene. Similar to my experience when Mom rests with the Lord. The kids this time needs comfort, support and understanding.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
Hello my dear amigo,
It is nice to know that friends in here share their feelings and sentiments with me.
Really,this is a great help to me reading all your responses.
She passed away last Tuesday night at around 10pm,leaving four kids orphaned by her.
It is really sad,very sad...but life's to be that way.
No one know about tomorrow,it's painful,but,we accepted it,that,she had finished what she started in this life.
Thanks for your responses dear amigo,thanks for being there always.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
Hello, Jaiho... I can't help crying while reading your post... I cried not for the guy but both for the mother and the kids... I'm pretty sure, she is trying to hold on to her dear life because of her kids. No loving mother would want to live her children too soon, perhaps, never... My prayers are with you and with your friend....
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
Hello friend,
Truly i also feel how she tried to keep holding on for her kids.
She's still very much conscious for 3 days and keep struggling for her life.
But maybe her time has come,she just passed away last Tuesday night at around 10pm.
Thanks for your concern and prayers dear,it is very much appreciated.
Thanks for your concern and prayers dear,it is very much appreciated.@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
Truly, I feel sorry for your friend and her family... Be strong, Jaiho... My condolences....
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
17 Nov 09
Hi jaiho,
Mother is always precious dear and I am very sad on her kids. Hope she will survive for her kids. How can she leave her kids nowhere? If anything happened, her kids are the only sufferer. Let us pray for her life.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
Hello dear chechi,
Thanks for your concern,she passed away last night,that's God plan for her.
It really pains...but,it's her fate...she maybe had reached her finish line already.
Life's can be a little painful for her family(kids and husband),but it has to be that way.
She will always remain in our heart and mind...she's a good friend and sister to us.
We mourn for her,but no greater sadness could ever surpass what her kids were feeling right now.
Thanks for your responses dear sister
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
Hello chechi,
i know you fully understand about it becoz you are also a mother.
i can't even imagine what life's ahead with this four kids without their mother.
A mother's love is incomparable....yah,they still had their father,but,it's still not like with how a mother care for her kids.
The youngest will never knew how does it feel to be loved by a mother(more than a year old)
thanks always for being there too my dear sister.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
I think even in the last minute of her dying wife. He feel love because at that moment love should taking place to give her wife strength to fight for the undermine eventualities in his life...
Love is only the meaning of his life...
@shonepen007 (111)
• India
17 Nov 09
Life is a like a journey through different roads..Sometimes it is like very nice highways and sometimes it is like village roads with gutters twists n turns..But it a fact that we have to go through it..There is no other way except giving up..
Only fools give up there..
Nothing in our life can be predicted..So we have to face whatever comes in our way..It may be painful or joyful..
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
hello friend,
Yes,life is like a journey,it has a starting line and now she reached her finish line.
Thu it hurts and painful to us(her friends)no more pain could ever be compared to what her kids were feeling right now.
She left behind four young kids...four young minds and heart(so sad)
Thanks for your response dear.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
hello friend,
Yes,life has to move on and keep going.
Thanks for your response dear.
@bodhisatya (2384)
• India
17 Nov 09
I am so sorry about the trauma through which you and and your ailing friend is in. may God be with us and I will say a prayer for her. If she is still breathing I strongly believe that she will recover, if not for anything then for her kids.
Be strong my dear sis, she will be well again.
Bodhi
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
Hello dear brother,
She just give up life last Tuesday night at around 10pm.
My dear friend is gone...leaving four young children she orphaned.
It does hurt,but it has to be that way,we have to accept reality that life's has to end on her part.
thanks for always being too,for all your concern and responses,it helps me a lot to know that there were friends in a far away place.
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Nov 09
hi sister, dont be pacimistic. there are chances of her return to life. but god knows. if u react in front of her as u are going to miss her then it may be the cause of her depression which can lead her to danger.
again, yes she can feel the love of her hubby bcoz her senses are still active although she is unable to react.
hope she will come back very quickly. god bless her
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
Hello dear brother,
I am a way too much emotional dear i know it,but,it is becoz she is a dear friend and sister...what can i do.
She just passed away last night,yah,she leaves us already.
I can't cry hard enough...i don't know why.
Maybe becoz,i know it's her choice...she choose to leave us,so,we have to let her go.
It's very sad...but,that's life.Her story is not as good like those of fairy tales.(ughh...i wanted to cry now)
Thanks for your response dear and have a good day always.
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She just passed away last night,yah,she leaves us already.
I can't cry hard enough...i don't know why.
Maybe becoz,i know it's her choice...she choose to leave us,so,we have to let her go.
It's very sad...but,that's life.Her story is not as good like those of fairy tales.(ughh...i wanted to cry now)
Thanks for your response dear and have a good day always.
@sexyposh (575)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
Reading your story really moved me. I'm sorry about your mom. But you have to be strong for your dad, because he too is losing his wife. I know you're still young but you have to act more than your years for your siblings now. About your discussion, I think she felt your Dad's love. The reason why she is still fighting her life for with every strength left.
Just hang on there and pray. Maybe with faith you have might do miracles... God Bless!
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 09
has become law, human love with happiness when he began to feel the loss of happiness
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
Hello friend,
Just like knowing the importance of any thing the moment we lost it?.
I guess you are right,humans nature to feel love the moment he lost happiness.
Thanks for your response dear and have a good day always
@shra1raju (8)
• India
17 Nov 09
mam!life is a race,where we are the riders.
as a race is going to start every thing is prepared.and then we will start.
if for example,if a speed breaker is there,there are 2 ways.
1.we have to go on it 2.we have to quit the race.
myfeelings is that,we recover from that tings,thats the essence of life.
I LIKE UR TRUNESS.TAKE CARE.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
Hello friend,
Yes,life is like a race,it has starting and finish line.
Some starts and finish faster than the others.
Some reaches the finishing line with smooth driving while others met accidents halfway.
Life is so uncertain,life sometimes is not fair to others,but life has to be that way...for we never holds what lies ahead.
Thanks for your response and have a good day always
@JayShay82 (78)
• United States
17 Nov 09
You did the best thing you could do. Even if a woman loves her husband with all her heart...kids are one thing a mother will always fight for. I pray that your friend makes it out. I also pray for her husband and kids. Especially having a small baby. I can't imagine what thoughts are running through her husband's head right now.
