difficult to leave my old home

hello sarikam... i understand what you feel coz i have been in that situation many times. yeah, its never easy to leave our old house since many memories are built there...but you can still keep those memories in your heart and in your mind. on my part, my husband and i always move to different places due to the nature of his work, we just stay in the house for a year and 2 years will be the most...what's difficult for me is to pack our things and of course its also difficult that i am leaving those people that i have met there who turns to be my friends as well... don't be sad for leaving the house coz all those memories will remain in your heart and what is important is you and your husband together and start new and better life in your new home... have a nice day!

I can understand your situation because I had gone through the same situation. My husband and I stayed in a house for rent. Now, he left the country and I moved to a different apartment because I didn't want to live alone in a big house and pay a huge rent. I am waiting for my visa to go with my husband. But, I still miss that hosue were we have lots of nice memories. Whenever I go to that place, I purposly take the route through the apartment. Yes, I miss my old home. But, this is how life goes and we need to keep adjusting to changes. Change is the only thing in life which keeps standing still, everything else changes with time.

Hi sarikam, I have gone through the same situation twice and now we are staying in the third house after marriage. We changed the first home after five years the second home after four years. Nothing can be done with our sentiments and emotions because it is not our own home so we have to face these situations. Please don’t worry on this and hope you will get your own home soon.

You will be able to have so many new memories in your new place together. I'm really sentimental and things like that are hard for me too. But think of all the firsts you and your hubby will have in your new home. Plus there is always the fun for new couples of making love in every room of your new house. HA! That was an old wives tale I was told to make sure your chickens didn't die if you had a farm! Pretend you have a farm! Good luck!

I just went through something very similar. My fiance and I shared an apartment together for the last two years while we were in college. We both graduated and because of the economy she was the only one who could find a job (4 states away) so she had to leave first, which left me to clean out the apartment by myself and turn in the keys. When I closed the door for the last time I'll admit that my eyes welled up and I had to sit in my car for a few minutes before I took off for good. I totally understand what you're going through. I live with a family member (not my parents) now. Hopefully I can find a job close to where she is. If all goes well hopefully that'll be in the spring time.

I understand ur emotions.. well the same happens with all of us. but you'll be starting a new life in ur new home just like a new world and dats too for ur better future. ur old days will remain as some butiful memories with both of u which u'll cherish all ur life...gud luck!