can`t a girl fall in love with a man who is 40?
By sweetyu0322
@sweetyu0322 (48)
China
November 17, 2009 9:46am CST
She knows she is in love with him cause she would feel hurt when he who is already 40 years old was gone.But she is just 21 years old and the man is as old as her parents.Everyone would against it even the man himself.But the girl is really really love him,she is thinking of him when she wakes up,having lunch,studying……Should the girl give up acheiving her happiness just because their age difference?
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2 responses
@karenkarenkk (1121)
• China
18 Nov 09
Hello, Sweety, as to me, 19 years differnce is really a gap that are hard to cross over... Can she list the reason that she love him? I think it's more of feeling than his' excellency. What's more, the man do not agree with the relationship, that means he do not love her as much as her do. In that case, I don't think she will be happy even if she marry him. Forget him. Time will cure...
@free_man (7330)
• United States
17 Nov 09
Hello Sweetyu and welcome to my lot. No I don't think the girl should give up her education I think she should keep going in school. She isn't giving up her life to become a housewife she is adding to the relationship. If she gives up the school then what if the relationship goes bad then she has nothing to fall back on. I think it would be unwise if she stopped going to school. Some relationships last forever some don't last that long. I was in a marriage that didn't last more then 6 months. My decision to end it cause it wasn't a good thing. I wish you all the luck in the world but that won't help if you give up everything you have worked for. Some men/women never grow up. My ex was older then me and it was a disaster! My honey is now younger then me by a few years but I am more secure now then I was with my ex. It isn't the age it is the maturity of each person. If your going to get involved then you have to be sure that is what both parties wants. Hope you have a great day!
