i am in love

Congratulations for finally meeting someone that can stir your heart to no end. I wish you the best of luck in your new found love. If you think she is the last woman on earth for you, why wait any longer. You should get engage with her and tie the knot soonest.

hello shibham! i am very happy for you! congrats my friend! well, with regards to your problem with your parents, i think you should talk to then and make them understand that you really love this woman and that she's the one that you want to be your wife and that you will be happy with her... i know your parents will understand. fight for her... and i wish you all the best and hope for your happiness! goodluck my friend!

I am in a situation like yours. But you are a lucky chap that she recalls you. In my case, same like yours, 2 years long separation but she never recalls. My parent (mother) has accepted her but from her family her mother has not accepted me and do everything to separate her from me and I think thats why she goes far away from me. I think it's a lost case now. Well you can maintain your relationship but at the same time watch and be careful does she have any other plan in mind which you don't know? So don't get swept away easily. Wait, watch, see & act. Parents won't mind for so long and if it turns into a problem a solution will surely come. But it's not the moment to think on it. Call her yourself & see how she behaves & decide.

hi there shibham my friend... how are you????i missed our chit chats already..heheheh! anyways...your in love again??well thats good news my friend...im very happy for you. you know what accepting someone is part of love..and that really matters most. if you think your happy with her,and you think you accepted her fully,and she makes you feel complete..why not???just make sure respect is always in your relationship..you knew that she only has low education.. in the part of the girl that hurts so much about what your parents think about her.. even though she only has low education ..if she knows how to think well and make right decisions , handle things in the right way and knows whats good and bad.. low eduction doesn't mean you don't have the brains.... its how you handle yourself in the situation.. may i ask why she didnt finished her studies/eduction??? cause of financial problem??... just remember shibham.. if you think your serious in your relationship and your willing to marry her cause you accepted her learn to fight for your love..most specially learn to make decisions on your own..your grown up now..so you have the right to choose what makes you feel happy and whats right for you...make your own decisions in life or you'll end up regretting one day.. have a happy love life!.. cheers!

Hi Shibam, ...just follow what your heart’’s desire, what will make you happy. Good Luck. You can make it—finding the right decision for what you are in now. i am happy for you friend!

If you love her and you like her personality and attitude as well then go for her. Explain you side to your parents. It seems to me that your parents are judging your girl without getting to know her more. that is not good at all. I know if they just give your girl a chance they will also see what you just saw and love about her. Fight for her. If she is really worth it, don't give her up for such astrological signs and beliefs...

I guess, you are old enough to know what is good and bad for you. Well, you are right, to love is not because of what the other person have, rather of who he/she really is. To love is to accept everything about him/her, be it a flaw or not. It is you who will be dealing with the person and not your parents, so why worry of what your parents say about her? Right? If you truly love her, then fight for her. As long as you know you will be happy with her against all odds. To love is not about astrological conditions, it is what you feel with each other. Why care and worry about other people? If people judge her, then defend her because it is you who knows her better. Decide for yourself, not others. Take care and good luck on your love.

Hi Shibham.. Congrats dear friend.. Does the girl also loves you so much that she cant live without you? Please dont hurt your parents and the girl also.. try to handle the situation in such a way that no one gets hurted.. and you get married to the girl when all yours and hers family are happy.. yes I know in India there is lots of astrological conditions.. and its upto you to take a decision now.. once again congrats friend..

I think your from India. Where most cases of parents didn't agree on what their children wanted to be their spouse or love. You did the right thing my friend. I appreciate what's your stand in life. Yes! no matter what don't give up that love. Because love don't see anything wrong whether your rich,poor,educated or intelligent that is love...

Love is one of the most important gifts in life and finding it is not always easy. We can find a partner and have a good life without finding love first, but it is not the same. Lower education and astrology are not factors that should be important in determining whether to pledge your heart and spend your life with someone. It is much more important to know what is in someone's heart than how many books he or she has read. If you and your sweetheart have enough common ground, that is you believe the same things about what is right and wrong in life, share the same views on how to raise children and so forth you will be able to build a strong foundation on which to build your life together. Parents are always going to look to what they think is best; if this person is honest and comes from a good family she can be a good wife and mother without having had a fancy education. The one thing I would caution you in is that for two years you have led very separate lives and you will need to become reacquainted. A lot can happen in such a short time as we are constantly learning, growing and evolving in life. I wish you the best in this situation.

Lovely news shibham. As for your dilmena you are 30 years old and must be your own man and choose your woman. If your parents don't come round then you can move away with your choice of woman, not theirs. Just don't put her in the middle or share all your problems about the issue with her as it is not of her making.

hey thats good shibh, you are in love, that means your own world alongwith you is flying here and there, looking for rain to dance in the rain, wanting her close to you......... am i right shibh, really, it is very nice feeling of love, i think everyone should fall in love for one time to realise the feeling of love, otherwise no one can feel what is love, well, your parents don't like that girl bcoz of her low education, thats not matter to refuse one, it is not that your girl friend is not educated, she is educated but not highly, now you have to show your parents her extra activities, like swing, cuting, cooking, her behaviour, her manner or her ability to maintain a complete family, you just try to show your parents her culture, how she make herself for a family, ok shibh, i hope my a little advise will help you. thanks.

It's up to you on what decision you want to make, for me I will still chose the one I love because my parents can be very angry but I know that someday they will understand me. Ive known a lot of person who encountered that situation also. It's hard to let go the love that you waited for so long and you might regret it.

I'm very pleased to hear that You have got together again after these two years Shibham. Love sometimes comes only once in a lifetime, I would not worry too much about upsettimg Your parents, You will not upset them because of an act of selfishness but because of thier misunderstanding about the true nature of Your girlfriend, it's not what is in a person's head that matters but what's in the heart. Please don't let her get away.

You are the one that lives your life, not your parents. Our children do disappoint us at times but that is their privilege and none of our business when they are adults. If your heart is with this woman you should be with her and your parents must accept it. If they are smart, they will welcome her into your family. If not, it's their loss and not yours. I wish you happiness!

I would say that you need to forget how everyine else feels about the issue and focus on how she makes you feel and the qualities that she has .Her educational staus doesnt determine whether she will make you happy but the type of person that she is on the inside.In fact you may meet someone who is highly educated and because of that she is "cocky" and pround and selfish.I am not saying that you should totally ignore your family but make them understand hwoyou feel about this womand and that you want her in your life and if the really love you ,they will try to understand.its always good when your family and your spoude gets along as it makes for a more harmonius relationship buts sometimes you may have to put family aside in the name of love and hope they come around eventually when the see that you made a good choice .I think it is better to try and find out rather than spend your life wondering "what if" and you may even end up hating your family. As far as the astroligical goes ,I have never really believed in those things, .instead I believe we are who we are because of genetics,socialization and expereinces

hey shibh, your new avatar is very nice, it reflects assamese communities culture, a GAMOSA & on the GAMOSA there is abeautyfull JAPI & a flower, really its very nice...it shows our state ASSAM'S culture........

Men, I'd say screw your parents! What kind of age do they live on? Back in feudal europe? I mean not accepting someone just because she is lower educated then you? This is just so lame! Sorry, maybe your parents are just thinking about your future and stuff but I had to say that. How old are you anyways?

thats great youre in love! Im sure your parents want the best for you. If you make them understand that that girl is the one youve been dreaming and her and she will definitely make your life, im sure they would understand :)

great!..congrats!..you know what, if you really like to be happy then don't think about others like your parent, i know its not easy but you need to for your own sake.. And I'm sorry to say this but i don't think your parents is being fare.. Try to prove them that you have chose the right girl even with her imperfections or may i say even your girl doesn't hit their standards., You know its a matter of being independent with your parents and to really fight for your happiness.. I wish you luck!