What is Your Attitude towards Cyber Love?
By getbrowser
@getbrowser (1708)
China
November 18, 2009 3:26am CST
Some people hold the idea that the cyber love is as pretty as the fascinating dream in which we are unwilling to wake up. But on the other hand, some others say cyber love is so virtual that it is impossible to win the lover's heart.
No matter young, old, single, married, talented or reckless, everyone may get involved in the cyber love. We can obtain the love which is difficult to find by merely a mouth, without investment of money or bearing too much burden or responsibility, you may also please yourself and others.
Is it worth devoting your true love for the virtual love? Do you take it for serious?
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27 responses
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
In my case about cyber relationship is depend on the real essence of the conversation on how will be handle in the nice way. love is not controllable and feelings is always grow even that person is in the distant place...If that happen unto me. I take it seriously because heart will always understand what it feels...
@Alicesnow (78)
• China
18 Nov 09
My sister with my sister's husband, knew by Internet.And they are very happiness,I think cyber maybe have true love.Such as my sister.It's maybe vary with each individual.
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
20 Nov 09
It is really an amazing thing that people get married with others with the basis of cyber love.
But for most people, it is next to impossible to believe cyber love for it is full of fantasy, which would never comes to reality. In their eyes, cyber love is full of unknown and imaginary things. People who want to build such a relstionship with their friends online maybe just want to share their sorrows and kill the spare time.
@suzzy3 (8341)
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20 Nov 09
I have known people that have started a love affair on the net then met and married.It can work for some who don't get much chance to meet people.I am lucky I met the love of my life and can see him all the time.I have got close to people on the net even then I feel like I am being unfaithful sound silly but I cannot handle two relationships at once.With cyber love you can be anyone or anything you want to be as the likely hood of ever meeting that person is very low.You could let your imagination run free,put someone else's picture on the screen and be whoever you want to be.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
20 Nov 09
One of the beautiful things that I discovered about cyber love many years ago is that it can turn into true love and have a wonderful outcome for the parties involved. I met my husband through the internet eight years ago and after chatting with each other on the computer for a few weeks, we met in person. We fell into true love very quickly, we were engaged six months after we met in person and after a two year engagement, we were married.
@honeywangpeng (48)
• China
20 Nov 09
I DONT BELIEVE THE CYBER LOVE.Are you kidding?love from cyber? we dont even kown man or woman the other side is ,maybe is a rabot.the love just depend on some talks throught the internet?
but we could find love from cyber space.that'true.we can get any information from it ,so we also can find someone we love.but what i want to say is please don't only depend on the cyber space.maybe the first step we did is through the cyber space,but the next step,please do something real.then you can get your love.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
19 Nov 09
You mean when I get done laughing? Seriously, I think people should be very careful around strangers whether on a real street or some back alley on the information highway. I am not saying it is impossible to meet someone online and then meet them in person and then after a long time develop a meaningful relationship. But this flash in the pan thing is just incomprehensible to me. All wishing and no substance, like eating candy for breakfast. Not a good way to get through the day.
@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
19 Nov 09
In this case I am a loser because I am expecting too much, whereas, the other party never take it seriously. May be my great fault because going for 30 year-old lady and me now 48 year-old and make thing worst after I told her I am a single parent. I thought told the truth bring something good for me but and unfortunately it adversely happened with bad return. Whatever, I think e-love is something an interesting part to get around with it.
@athomice (396)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
I'm one of the fortunate when it comes to cyber love. I met my wife in a chat room then the rest is history. I know there's so many questions left unanswer in cyber love but one thing I know is you should be careful. Not all cyber love are successful that's why people should be careful.
@michael74 (122)
• Singapore
19 Nov 09
getbrowser,
Honestly, i don't think we should even spend our time on such thing, It's totally a waste! I dont say dont make friends in the net it's good but to find cyber love? i dont think so.
The cyber space i would say is probably one of the best things man has ever invented, but it's over exploite and mis used, And one thing it was used wrongly is this cyber love.
My, opinion if you meet a person you're interested to in the net, try to meet him or her in person and only then you can start to consider liking him or her BUT NOT NOT THRU THE NET.
Cyber space is only a tool to start meeting new individuals.
@ghelai123187 (15)
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19 Nov 09
In my case, I tried to look for one online but I found nothing...but FRIENDS.
Some will probably believe that they can meet their soul mate online.
Some will just look for fun.
Some will eventually meet their Mr./Ms. Right
Just advice to those who wants to try this.
Make sure you don't reveal too much information about you. Your chat mate may turn out to be a spammer or a robot. haha.. Just be careful and smart.
@celticeagle (167015)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Nov 09
I think cyber love is for those who are in to it. As long as they don't hurt anyone or anything then it is okay. If you feel it for 'real' love then it is up to the two people engaging in it to set down the ground rules. If it works for the two of them- great! If not, they need to move away from it and not venture there again. The experience can be good or bad. And, it is just that, an experience.
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
19 Nov 09
I took it seriously before but only to find out that Im being fooled._ He didnt say so,but i can sense it.I've been thinking what a fool I was to take it seriously since we've never met in real life,and little did I know him by talking on the phone.Now,I dont believe cyber love.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
I know 4 people who benefited from cyber love or cyber dating, two of them got married to a US citizen, one Married a British and the other Australian. Its famous here in the Philippines.
@CathyLee2009 (429)
• China
18 Nov 09
hi,getbrowser!
though more and more people are experiecing cyber love,I don't trust it very much.after all it's hard to know exactly a man in real life,let alone a lover online.of course it is another thing if just searching for fun and excitement.
have a nice day!
@soybeans612 (122)
• United States
19 Nov 09
I think loving someone online can be a bit scary only because you have no idea if they are who they say they are, unless you video chat with them. But even if you do know they look how they say they look, maybe they're lying about the type of person they portray themselves to be, or they say whatever they feel you want to hear. Plus maybe they're just lonely and looking for anyone to make them feel good and once they find someone else, they'll just disappear from your life. So, I think loving someone in person is better than loving them through the internet, especially since as people we sometimes need more than what someone can give us through the internet, like being able to go out together, or watching a movie together or whatever.
@baptupaul (55)
• India
18 Nov 09
Love is a very delicate feeling and has to be handled very delicately. In net, most people show their that side of character which they want to show. So, in the Cyber world, we cant know a person perfectly. even in phone we cant get all sides of a person so forget about net. And about that money aspect, if you truly love someone, money doesn't come anywhere in between such a relationship. Hence, I have a very casual attitude towards online love.