which one do you prefer? the same age partner? older or younger one?? hehe
By MsSasa87
@MsSasa87 (28)
Malaysia
19 responses
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
hello MsSasa87!
for me, don't matter much at all! haha...as long as i love him and the feeling is mutual and i feel the sincerity then no problem at all... but i don't like too young okay? hehe 1-3 years younger than me will be fine...actually i once have a bf (for a short time) who's almost 3 years younger than me... he's just so sweet and well sometimes acts like a kid...huh!
but now, i am married to a man who's 7 years older than me, and its great...being with a mature man who know what he wants and who is responsible enough in everything...
older, younger, same age don't matter all have their pros & cons depends on the 'maturity' of the person and how you treat each other...
age doesn't matter as they say...hehe
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
thanks...and i really hope, well i believe that my husband and i will last for a life time...haha
actually with older partner... i feel like a baby...with younger one, i feel like a mommy! haha just kidding!
i can't say anything much for same age coz i don't got the chance of having a bf of the same age as me...hehe maybe , i can't get along with that...i'm afraid that we will clash with our thoughts...hehe
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
welcome to the wonderful world of mylot. age does not matter its how you make the relationship works. my wife is 4 years older than me and i guess we are both doing our very best to make our relationship work. we work side to side, accepting our imperfection and short comings. there are older couples but are not mentally matured and there are younger couples out there but there mentality are mature.
@mrssator2002 (281)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
Ive been in a relationship with the same age, older one and a younger one. Nevertheless, its not the age that matter but the person who is capable of handling the relationship well. The one who will love you throughout the years like my husband did.
@ced_cap (207)
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
Hi MsSasa87,
For me as a woman I would prefer an older man than younger one. why?...because...
first, they're more experienced...
second, they'll baby you and i always love to be babied...
third, they are more patient especially when we're having our tantrums.
@Picquarian (724)
• United States
20 Dec 09
I don't necessarily look at age, but maturity, common interests, life experience. I've dated older, same aged and younger men. They are all pretty much the same.
@chantalgiardina (2523)
• United States
18 Nov 09
I normally date men older than me. Younger guys are immature and i dont have time for the high school games most men my age try to run. I need a man who can love and support a family not a little boy who wants to party all the time. Yes older man can ae that side to them, but most i find are more mature.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
Hi MsSasa87,For a person who loves,age doesn't matter as long as they understand and trust each other. My boyfriend before was i year younger than me,although he's good but not caring as my husband does.While my husband is 6 years older than me and i find that older is much caring,loving than younger one.He is very responsible and a good provider.Thanks,Good Day!
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
i would prefer some one older by 5 years, i had a girlfriend whose older, 5 years, they are a lot more understanding, unexpected and sexually caring.
@loyalfreelancer (40)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
I prefer someone of the same age. I dont like someone dictating me to do things just because he's more experienced than me. Maybe its a little bit of pride also. What I like is that we can both explore and learn things.
@scoutsniper85 (432)
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19 Nov 09
Age does'nt matter really..But for me, I find my connection with someone older than me..I like mature individuals..I can't find any reasons to be not safe..They even have more experiences and teach you many things..But also it depends on the person because some are mature enough at their age..
@kimmie_0190 (19)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
well, prefer men older than me because i just think they are mature enough to have an intellectual conversation..Because i hate guys talking non sense.. And i Think older men are more responsible to take good care of me and I feel more safe being with them..
@raduzahc (12)
• Denmark
19 Nov 09
I think that age doesn't matter, as long as it is a healthy relationship. I think sometimes it can be hard if there is a big age difference because that might mean you have other hobbies, interests etc. It can also happen people of different ages to get together because they need to feel protected or give protection, like mother-son relationship.
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
18 Nov 09
I don't think it matters really what age someone is as long as they are in love and have that connection. I believe age is only a number and you can find love at any age and not mattering what someones else's age it.
Right now im dating someone who is 5 1/2 years older than me and i find it to be must easier as he is much more mature and i can rely on him with things. Also i have dated guys around my age and found they weren't mature and kinda wanted to do things on their own so for me i do prefer a mature guy even if he is around my age as long as they can handle what i give them i guess.
When in relationship there has to be a connection to work and sometimes that connection comes with a big age difference as we all know and have seen it on TV before. I have a family member who married a guy 10 years older than her, but he is in great shape and they can relate on the same level on maturity as i believe girls mature faster than guys do.
@Craicha (801)
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18 Nov 09
i want older than my age coz at this age guys are matured and paience to understand about there woman especially if theres a misunderstanding..and im nah wrong coz i meet and love my man older than me and having him with me that made me complete and so happy coz i love the way he loves me .......... and I LOVE HIM SO MUCCCHHHHH....
@yourlankanfriend (156)
• Australia
18 Nov 09
I prefer to choose women that are older. Perhaps by a max of 5 years older than i am. I am not attracted to younger women. But mature women are far hotter for me than ones that are my age!