Could you give me better suggestion about my baby,my life
By Lornal
@Lornal (113)
China
November 18, 2009 9:59am CST
I am so sad recently, my little daughter, she is only 13 months, but i have to put her in the country with her grandmother.
I love her very much, but i have to work and no more time to take care of her. So i want to ask my mother to live with us in the city (his monter health is not good and can not help us to take care of our daughter), but my husband prefer to put her in the country, so in the past months, we discussed and fired many many times.
Both of us are hurted heavily.
When my mother stayed with us to take care of our daugher, he is not happy everyday and have a frozen look on his face, then all of us are not happy, i could not bear it.So before three weeks, my mother taked my daughter to live in the country.
I could not understand why he want to put our daugher in the country alone.
I am so missing my baby everyday and i can not forgive him. We have beening in cold war after my daughter leaved us.
How can i do in the further, could you give me better suggestion? I feel sad and helpless, so i am so tired for my life.
4 responses
@today2009 (160)
• China
21 Nov 09
The relationship between the two generation is that deal .However ,things do not hurt our parents .They are too trouble.Be properly and your husband share!
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
21 Nov 09
Your situation sounds very difficult so I wish you luck. It is not easy to work full time and care for children. Part time work and hiring a child minder can work. Your daughter is only 13 months old. She will get used to being with your mother. You are missing your baby girl so you should go and see her. You could try to work things out by having some conversation. Your husband needs to consider your wishes.
