Obese children

Australia
November 18, 2009 5:05pm CST
It's a fact that children are getting fatter and fatter. Diet and lack of exercise play a huge role in this. Children today are given too many treats and spend too much time in front of the television or computer. In my opinion, medical conditions aside, it's the parents' fault. They purchase all the wrong foods and feed their children junk food. Most of the time the parents are obese too. I see it as a form of child abuse: potentially shortening the life span of your own child. How do you feel about the increasing numbers of obese children?
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@getbrowser (1708)
• China
19 Nov 09
Obese children - The obese children should do some exercises everyday and keep a healthy eating diet. If they may face various pressure, they may keep a proper weight instead of getting fatter.
Yeah, I have noticed such a phenomenon that there are more and more children are getting fatter and fatter. With the development of our society, most children can enjoy a better life and don't need to face the pressure of work and life. Besides, they eat much fast-food everyday, which are all junk foods and really a major factor that make them get fatter. Thirdly, they have spent much time on surfing the Internet and watching TV. In my eyes, the obese children should do some exercises everyday and keep a healthy eating diet.
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• Australia
20 Nov 09
The photo associated with your post is shocking - to say the least. How can you watch your children grow to that size? And I am purely assuming they have no medical conditions... A picture says more than a thousand words. Good ole McD!!!
@kail2001 (249)
• India
19 Nov 09
childhood obesity is the leading cause of pediatric hypertension, is associated with Type II diabetes mellitus, increases the risk of coronary heart disease, increases stress on the weight-bearing joints, lowers self-esteem, and affects relationships with peers. so we have to prevent this. happy mylotting
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• Australia
20 Nov 09
Yes. Yes. Yes. Why do parents not see this?? The risks of over-indulging are huge. As you mention, the social impact it has on the child. A guy once told me, he was an overweight child, "No one wants to play with the fat kid!". Children can be cruel and unfortunately they target those different to them.
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
I think it is alarming because children now a days are overweight or obese. Because of the technology they are not physically active anymore they spend more time with computer and watching tv. Unlike before children are more phsically active and the food is much healthier. It is also the fault of parents for tolerating and spoiling their children.
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• Australia
20 Nov 09
Yes I also think parents are spoiling their children but in the process they are doing them more harm than good. I wonder how parents treat their children to something special when they are giving it them everyday? Maybe something special is TWO Big Macs instead of one ;)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
Yes, there's a huge number of obese children. Obesity is a predisposing factor of Type 2 diabetes. But we can't blame everything to parents. Sometimes, obesity is a result of hypothyroidism. It's not just because of the diet. It is not just because they have been overfed. The parents should seek medical advice for their obese kids to see the underlying cause. If it is hypothyroidism, then, they will be prescribed with medications.
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• Australia
18 Nov 09
Thanks for the comment. I know there are medical conditions that cause weight gain, that's why I specifically said medical conditions aside. I am aware of hypothyroidism and is not within the realm of my discussion. I want to know if people think the parents are at fault if their children are obese? (medical conditions aside)
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@lindiebiz (1006)
• Canada
19 Nov 09
I attribute it to eating to much junk food and treats and also being redundant. Some kids spend thier day in fron of the TV or the computer, they should go to the park more often or get some other form of exercise daily.
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• Australia
19 Nov 09
Hi lindiebiz. You are correct in attributing obesity to non-activity. Several responses I have had said that it is unsafe in some places for children to play outside. I think in that instance parents should invest in the Nintendo Wii Fit for their children then and force them to 'play' before they are allowed to play games. Do you think that is a good idea? Do you have other suggestions?
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
19 Nov 09
I have to agree. Months ago, it was on the news that a mother was charged with negligence because her son was morbidly obese. She didnt follow the doctor's orders in getting him help and keeping food checks and all so she was charged. I think parents should be responsible for what their kids eat. Some of them though think that fat kids are cute. I don't get it. There is a HUGE risk of getting heart disease and diabetes when kids are overweight.
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• Australia
20 Nov 09
Wow - charged with negligence? That's a breakthrough! It pleases me when the legal system actually works. I do see it as a form of child abuse: it is the parents after all who fill the shopping cart with junk! In my eyes fat kids are far from cute. I would never forgive myself if my child was diagnosed with diabetes or heart disease because I gave into my child's every whim. That is why we are the adults - we should be responsible enough to make the right choices for our children.
@surfette (673)
• United States
19 Nov 09
With people trying to make ends meet and often working two jobs, it can be a difficult task to eat healthy for not only the children, but for the parents too. If people knew how easy it is to make a delicious, low fat meal in a crock pot in the morning (five minutes or less) and have a nutritious meal on the table for supper, it would help not only their eating habits, but the pocketbook as well. When shopping, just plan ahead and try to buy low calorie snacks and have them prepared ahead. If you have apple slices, carrots, celery, etc. already cut up with a low calorie dip, you can teach the children to grab that snack instead of chips, etc. It really doesn't take that much time, but you do have to have them ready to "grab" out of the refrigerator. As far as technology, I know that I spend a lot more time sitting in front of the television and computer as well. Even taking a break to walk around the room every so often is good for you. I agree with other posters who say that it is not safe like in years past to just let your children go to the park or play outside unsupervised. Children aren't even safe walking home from school without being in large groups. I know time can be limited, but a whole family trip to the park for even an hour can be fun for everyone. With the hectic way the world is today, it is very difficult to maintain an ideal weight and healthy lifestyle. With a few extra minutes of preparation, it can be done. P.S. Ask the children for snack ideas of fruits and veggies. If they get to pick, they may be more eager to eat the choices.
@surfette (673)
• United States
20 Nov 09
I agree with every word! Let's get shouting!
• Australia
20 Nov 09
Surfette, thanks for the useful post. Wish parents could read this and learn. Thinking ahead is the name of the weight game. Simple things like do a meal menu for the week, creating a shopping list and sticking to it are already a step in the right direction. I don't believe that we deprive our children because they get less "goodies" than their friends - I am positive they will thank us in the future. Especially my daughter when she enters her teenage years. Taking the first step towards change is always the hardest. There will definitely be resistance (and sugar withdrawal) from the children but parents need to step up to the plate and take responsibility. I think we should start shouting tips out from the roof tops ;)
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
19 Nov 09
I do think that all too often it is the fault of the parents. I work in a convenience store and some of these kids are allowed to come in and buy enough junk food for 10 kids but sadly....it is just for them. Then you see the parents who are the same. I know that for some kids it is something they come by naturally but I really think that most kids form these eating habits because it is what they know. Combine that with the lack of excersise and you have fat kids
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
20 Nov 09
It is really tough watching over time as these cute little kids get fatter and fatter. If you say anything to the parent they don't want to give the kid a complex by mentioning they are getting overweight so it continues. To me it seems so simple. Just stop buying junk food and eat healthy along with the child and maybe walk and excercise with the child before it gets impossibly out of control.
• Australia
21 Nov 09
Yes it is that simple. Why don't parents get it? I know what you mean about mentioning their kid's weight to the parents - they get so defensive. It's not our place to say anything but if, like me, you see it as a form of child abuse/negligence then surely we should say something, despite the consequences. We don't ignore a child who is physically being abused but we sure ignore obese children.
• Australia
20 Nov 09
It must be tough watching these little bodies run riot in the store and there is not a thing you can do about it. I am starting to think that the parents need the education because they are the root of the problem. Running in the store is possibly the only exercise these children get to do. In our one store we have a "sweet free" checkout which is brilliant for parents. I always go to that checkout - it saves me tons of embarrassing looks from saying "NO" to my children and the ensuing tantrums :)
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
19 Nov 09
Parents that allowed their children to be obese are wicked. Yesterday I saw my neighbour's daughter for the first time and she is as fat as the mother. When you looked at the legs you will think that the child is 10 and she should be like 5yrs. When i asked the mother why she allowed the child to be so fat she said it is not she lol. In my days I was fat yes but was very active riding bicycle, walking long distances and doing the house work where we have to be using the shining brush to shine the floors. So those was activities that allowed one to be active. These children only eat and sleep. The food we was eating at that time was natural but these now a days are filled with fertilizers. Parents need to take back their children in hand.
• Australia
21 Nov 09
You are brave asking the mother why she allowed her daughter to get fat. More so, I am surprised she replied. My experience is that most parents are very defensive when it comes to the weight of their children. In addition, I cannot believe the mother replied that it was not her! Surely she buys all the food that the child consumes. Even if family members are over-feeding the child then she needs to step up to the plate and insist that they don't. But you did say the mother was fat as well, so that explains where the food is coming from. It's so sad.
• United States
19 Nov 09
I agree with you to a certain degree. Parents need to take more responsibility in the kinds of food they feed the children to help deal with obesity. That is not the only problem. Also, high-fat and high sugar foods are the cheapest, so if you don't have much money, you have to buy those for your family a lot of the time.
• Australia
21 Nov 09
Yes danrunsfast I know that it is so true that quick-fix meals are the cheaper option. Why do think that is? There are warnings in all types of media about the risks of obesity and being overweight yet we pay dearly for healthy foods. It should not be that way and the poorer families cannot afford the healthier foods. However, if you cut out all the junk (biscuits, crisps, chocolates, fizzy drinks etc.) from the grocery bill then surely there would be more money for healthier foods. Don't you think so? Besides, if you are healthier that also means less trips to the doctor and less medication. More money-saving. People just need to be smart about their choices and cut down on their portion sizes too.
• United States
19 Nov 09
Well, it really depends because some children have a slow metabolism so even though they're eating the right things, they just tend to still gain weight. But I think that parents need to help their children to become more active. When I was growing up everyone I knew was always outside playing and running about, now children have so many things to keep them busy at home, like video games and computer games, and all types of movies and stuff that they don't even feel like doing anything active since those things just require them to sit still for hours. However, companies are trying to break that cycle; for example, Nintendo does have the WII system which allows children to play games while being active. And there are even old games like Dance Dance Revolution. I don't think it's always food. I think you can feed your child the right way but if they're not being active then they'll definitely gain weight, and unfortunately parents have to work so they can't always make sure their children are getting the right amount of exercise a day.
• Australia
20 Nov 09
You are right soybean - calories in must never be more than calories burned. If that is the case then you will gain weight. I also think the Nintendo Wii it is a good alternative for children but nothing beats the fresh air. With all the security issues people have mentioned, someone commented on a family outing which might be a safer alternative. It is tougher for parents who are working because they don't know what their children are up to.
• India
19 Nov 09
I agree with you.The old people are still living strong and fit.But the young generations are having so much health problems.It is because of wrong food habits as mentioned by you.Now a days people are not having proper food habit and diet control.The environment in which we live is fast changing and people are bothered only about money and not food.
• Australia
20 Nov 09
Oh boy you are so right karthick: people are way too bothered with money. Way back when, women stayed home and prepared fabulous meals for their families. And yes I know, nowadays it is almost impossible for one parent to stay home. DO you not think that when you make that choice to have both parents working, that you make a plan for dinner preparations? Surely that is the main priority. I also think there is a misconception that healthy food just doesn't taste as good as junk. The whole mindset of people needs to change and planning is fundamental to a healthy lifestyle. It is, after all, so much easier to pop into the take-out store on your way home because you haven't taken any meat out the freezer or just don't know what is quick enough to prepare.
• United States
23 Nov 09
I agree with you that, medical issues aside, obesity is largely the fault of parents, but society and modern life in general are also to blame. Due to either single parent families or both parents working, the rat-race rush or the pressure causes people to rely on fast-food or eating out all the time. Also to blame, is the portion sizes that most Americans expect. Go to any restaurant and the portions are so huge - much more than any single person should eat. Food offered at schools are usually not the best to promote healthy eating. Childrens menus at restaurants are mostly Pizza, Hot Dogs, and Mac & Cheese, or some other unhealthy, non-vegetable or fruit containing meal. I also agree with you that it is a form of child abuse, 1)the immediate effect as well as the long term medical effect. Chances they will end up with tons of weight related medical problems. A lot of children, especially inner city kids, probably don't have anywhere safe to play to get exercise. And unfortunately, let's face it, fast food is also a lot cheaper than fresh fruit and vegetables. What do you think is the solution, if any, to this epedemic? There are so many too radical suggestions out there like taxes or penalties. Just simply saying education is the answer isn't good enough for me. There has to be a sensible, affective, long-lasting way to tackle the problem!!