what dose this means when your guyfriend dose this?
@persona_touch (1701)
United States
November 18, 2009 10:09pm CST
I have a guy friend that i know for 7+ years he has always be a good friend and still is now, but the wired thing is out of all the years i know him he has never talk about his ex-girl friends with me now he finds out me and my boyfriend are back together he talks about them all the time and ask me alot of qutions about me and me boyfrend. so what do that mean do he likes me or is he just try to be a good friend?
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@larish (2221)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
I am not sure if he likes you but my question is do you try to interrogate him about his past girlfriends? If not, maybe it is the reason why he doesn't talk about it because he felt that you are not interested to know. Anyway, if you are not comfortable with the way he is asking you about you and your boyfriend, try to change the topic. This way he will get the message that you don't want to talk about it. If he is really a friend, he will respect your decision.
@persona_touch (1701)
• United States
19 Nov 09
I never bring up his past girlfriends thats the wired thing about it if i did i would know why he is talking about them but i don't bring them up. I don't care if he say quetions i just don't know why he keeps asking me the same quetions about me bf i asked but he say nothing. I tho that maybe he wanted pointers or something but the quetions he ask about my boyfriend have nothing to do with what he is talking about with the ex's so i don't know.
@maria120883 (392)
• United States
19 Nov 09
I don't know i would need more information about your friend... Has he ever hit on you? Maybe he didn't know how to talk to you about it. Did you ever try asking him about his ex-girlfriends? Maybe he is trying to fix something with his current girlfriend so he wants some tips on what to do or what not to do. It can be many things.
If you came to him and needed advice then maybe he is trying to help you by talking about his ex's to you. Maybe he is trying to make you jealous?? Do you think that is what it might be?? Well let me know how it goes...
Happy mylotting
Maria s.
@persona_touch (1701)
• United States
19 Nov 09
I never asked about his ex it's to wired for me i would always tell me about them even when we are talking about school at first i thoght it was one person but he told me it diffent people his talking. he is single right now and keep telling me about his ex's and asking all of these qetions about my boyfriend i ask him why he keep doing that but he never tells me. i don't know if he is just try to be a friend or if there is something more.
@maria120883 (392)
• United States
20 Nov 09
You know what a thought just came to my head. Do you think he may be gay? He might like your boyfriend of something like that.
Or he might ask you questions about him to see what your BF does to you so that he could do the same and then you friend can do that to you so that you will go out with him.
Hey who knows whats going on in your friends mind. just ask him straight out what you want to know. That is the better approach to it. Yall have been friends for a long time you should have the confidence and trust in him to tell you the truth. Don't be scared to ask what you want to know
Good LUck
Maria s.
@thuynhu (661)
• United States
19 Nov 09
I think that is really weird that he's never talked about any of them until now. I mean its a possibility that he may like you more than a friend. It depends on how he's talking about his ex-girlfriends. Does he talk bad about them or good? If he's talking good then he may just be trying to be a good friend. If he's talking bad about them he may be trying to get you to realize that your boyfriend maybe no good for you and he wants you. I don't want to ruin your friendship or anything, but maybe you should just ask him. If you guys have been friends for that long you guys should be able to have that conversations. Good luck.
@persona_touch (1701)
• United States
19 Nov 09
yeah i thogth is was wierd to he talks about what happed and how they brok up and stuff then he will ask about my boyfirend the he will go back to his ex then back to my boyfriend it back and fourth some of them he talks bad about them and some he don't so i don't know.
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
19 Nov 09
I don't know but for me, unless a guy shows clear signs that he is hitting on me, then I wouldn't jump to conclusions like that. Maybe he is trying to talk about relationships since you're already in one? I wouldn't make much of a deal out of it. That's just me.
