Give a minute to Your Mother and Father

Thank you for your kind moment. From the moment a child understand life, what a lot of hurdles. For a moment if we sit and think "which child has a smooth sail until she or he controls of their lives, the answer will be none poorest, poor, middle or the rich. All what you have gone through by yourself is which makes you a perfect person, you don't require somebody to advise you, you have answers to all your questions with tears in your eyes or hurt. Finally, when you take control of yourself all these will bring a smile to your face to think, how did I survive all what I went through my life. You are a stronger person and you will give best to your future with the blessings of God. He is your best friend,

First of all may I thank you very much for your reply. I am really sorry and I cried reading your message. We human beings are being created with such feelings so that in life you could qualify an experience which you are going through. You see this is very natural in all home, it is not only in your home. I have 3 grown up unmarried children. Elderst son and 2 daughters. I have given equal affection to all 3 of them but my elderst daughter has this feeling I give more to my elderst son and the youngest daughter. My elderst daughter gave me wrong impression of her education. I get her to enroll her in her studies at the University but she has some excuses and load of lies. Right now she is doing her ACCA and without believing in her I take her personally to the Centre and enrol her, pay the overseas examination fees and her tuition fees. Due to her own fault she is suffering and cannot move forward. In fact she has left the house and staying with her friend. This is the most stupidest thing she did but we could not stop her because she is a hard nut. I know she will definetly come back though she earn 30,000 per her month in 5 days she has no penny in her pocket. While her elder brother does night duty and today he sat his last examine to complete his 4 years of Study to be a Graduate in Civil Aviation. He pay his fees from his salary. He loves his parents though the father always be after his, condemning him but he stuck to his studies. Today, I am so happy that he has achieved his goal. He is a Private Pilot and if God bless him he will continue his Commercial Flying train. Its a lot of money but this his dream and his parents blessings are always there. My youngest daughter is a part-time English Instructress and managing her own fees. She is doing her Bachelors in Medical Laboratory Technology - 4 years course. She is in her 2 year. May God bless my daughter and everyone. What I am trying to tell you is this is a natural process which you are going through, dont allow this to effect your studies and daily happiness. The moment you get such a feeling go for a long walk and admire everything around you. Hit a branch and see it will bounce back at you. This is exactly what you think about your mother's statement. Dont take it hard on you. Love yourself and enjoy everything good around you.