You were CHEATED.. Forgive or Forget..

forgive your husband that will lead to good relation ship maybe he will relize and change his attitude.

forgiving is very easy to do,but trying to forget is very much difficult it ill just lead not to trust your partner,that much maybe only 50%trust will be given,It really takes lots of time and prayers to forget..

Each individual situation is different, but for me, it would depend on whether the other relationship has ended and whether my partner is truly sorry that it occurred and is now willing to put 100% toward our relationship. My partner would have to prove to me that I can now trust him. So I guess my answer would be that I forgive but until such time that trust is re-established, I do not forget.

Forgive but don't forget.. if He/she did it again.. then Done! =) but seriously it's a broad question, it really depends on the situation. =) and circumstances.

see it will be depend that which type of mistake he has done ? and also try to understand why she cheated me ? I would ask question from myself that were I wrong? and after that I will make my decession if cheating is untoleratable so I will forget her or if will see any chance that I can forgive her so I will do that .Means accordind to sittuation I will make my decession

I think one of the most important thing in love and relationship is forgiveness. Whatever the mistakes done by our lover, family, or friends, we should forgive them. I know it's easy to tell it, but it's very difficult to do so. But I'm sure we should learn how to forgive. Because we did mistakes too, and we've received forgiveness from them who love us.

I don't think I could ever forget or fully forgive anyone for doing that to me. I'd rather end the relationship and let them do whatever/whomever they want. i don't want to tough it out, because I 'd be temped to get back at them if we stayed together.

I will forgive him for sure though it's not easy but I will...forget him ? nope I won't forget him.., but there will be no second chance :)

It really depends on the situation. If he made the move and took the initiative to talk to the girl and discuss that stuff, its definitely not a forgive situation. However, if it were another situation, I would see what the mistake was. I wouldnt forget it, but i'd manage to forgive him after a while if he is truly sincere.

Forgive. Just simply forgive. It will make you big to that cheater once he realizes his this thing. Thank you.

hmm. i have a similar post like this in questions and answers. care to read it? well i guess its forgive. but i must admit i cant forget. sometimes i sill think of her. just like what i did early morning today when i had that post.