How often you remember your first love?

@borhan (1338)
United States
November 19, 2009 1:07pm CST
None can forget his or her first love. First love is like the secret printings on currency notes. It cannot be seen normally, but once someone wishes he or she can see that. First love is a secret print at heart. How frequently you remember your first love? Or this discussion reminded you that?
10 responses
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
hello borhan... i don't really know if the guy that's on my mind was my first love, but all i know is that he's my first crush? hehe well actually, when talking about first love, he's really the one that comes to my mind and he's also my puppy love! haha but we never become us...huh! how frequently did i remember him? very seldom! haha. but there's still sometimes that i come to talk to him coz somehow they are close to our family. well, your discussion just remind me of him again...
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@borhan (1338)
• United States
20 Nov 09
Waaooo! I am happy that the discussion reminded you him. Have a great day.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
haha..and thanks for reminding me! lol!
• United States
20 Nov 09
I would rather forget my first love. He was very abusive towards me both verbally and physically. I am now married and I could not be happier. I am glad that my husband and I are togther. He makes me very happy. I know that people do wish they can have something they cannot have. I never think about my first love because he had hurt me and there are times even to this day that I have nightmares.
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@borhan (1338)
• United States
20 Nov 09
I wish you a very happy life. All first things does not mean a happy episode. Have a great day. Thank you.
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
19 Nov 09
I am 52. My first love came when I was 17. We still keep in touch by e-mail, although not recently. I live in Michigan. That's where we met. She moved to texas, I forget when. I have her in my yahoo address book.
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@borhan (1338)
• United States
19 Nov 09
So nice of you for sharing this . First love is a nostalgic and as well as a secret happiness. None can forget that. Thank you for sharing. Have a great day.
@gicolet (1702)
• United States
19 Nov 09
My first love broke my heart so I'd rather forget about him. He's a total jerk. First love doesn't necessarily mean true love so I've moved on and he's like a 100 yrs ago to me already.
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@borhan (1338)
• United States
19 Nov 09
Despite negative at the end, it is very difficult on your part to forget. At least to hate that, you are remembering your first love. Thank you.
@Lucky09 (1763)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
hi borhan^^;; my first love happens to be my childhood sweetheart too. i mean we were neighbors and playmates at the same time. though after elementary, we went to different highschools and separated. we never met until college due to same sports that we both engaged in our city. there we started dating. it didn't last long though since we were still young and our character didn't match...i mean we were both stubborn we are still friends now and we don't feel awkward when we meet even with his wife and my hubby too..
@borhan (1338)
• United States
27 Nov 09
It started like a movie, but the ending is realistic. Thank you for your comment. Have a great day.
• Italy
19 Nov 09
My first love...meaning the first person I really loved. I used to remember him for years and still one year ago I was heartbroken about him, I think it's been 4 years then, yes, get a life, I have a life, I also had other loves, but really never like the first. Now I don't think about him so much, actually I also have some difficulty to remember some details, the most is gone.
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@borhan (1338)
• United States
20 Nov 09
Life takes it's own style to cover up it's losses. Thats what happened to you. Keep cheering up, life itself is your best friend to help you out in all bad stages. Thank you.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
i am married to my wife for seven years now and i can say that i still remember my first love. she does too. but i no longer see her so there is still memories but i dont think its that clear i cherished more on what i have right now. my wife's first love is still her friend, and sometimes i feel a little odd for they remained to be friends but the guy did not marry, until now he is single. is it a choice? i dont know.
@borhan (1338)
• United States
20 Nov 09
First love is like fresh vegetables. So long it is inside heart, with the temparature of heart, it remains fresh. The day it is out of that place , it vanishes. Ha ha ha... Have a great day.
@nautilus33 (1827)
20 Nov 09
Hi, I can't say if she was my first lo, because I was only child, but that was 14 years ago, and we were school-mates. I was thinking about her every day and night, but I was so shy to talk with her. In present days I don't remember her so often, but when I do that, I feel like in the old days and then I am happy in some strange way.
@borhan (1338)
• United States
27 Nov 09
Her memory takes you back to those old days. It seems that remembering her makes you a bit nostalgic also. happy mylotting and have a great day.
@yan_blue8 (1437)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
Hi borhan! Hmmm, i still remmber my first love and the pains he brought to me especially during the breakup. It was 6 years ago. But at times, when i hear our favorite song by that time, or i passed into our favorite place, i can't help it but remember him! And yes, this discussion reminds of him too We have lots of common friends so at times they tend to ask how is he.. which is not good! He now has a kid, so i don't bother to have communication with him anymore. We're not even friends
@borhan (1338)
• United States
27 Nov 09
The memory is nice less the person. What a conclusion. Thank you.
• India
20 Nov 09
actually you should replace the word love with affection because the first affection is misunderstood as first love generally. and first affection is the great thing which always occur ed in just a eye contact and in the most cases it is one sided. i remember my first affection by telling about that with my new friend and family members
@borhan (1338)
• United States
27 Nov 09
Yes, you are correct. Still i consider that to be love. My first love is my last one. Because i married her. Now we have a 13 yrs old daughter. Happy mylotting.