How often you remember your first love?
By borhan
@borhan (1338)
United States
November 19, 2009 1:07pm CST
None can forget his or her first love. First love is like the secret printings on currency notes. It cannot be seen normally, but once someone wishes he or she can see that. First love is a secret print at heart. How frequently you remember your first love? Or this discussion reminded you that?
10 responses
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
hello borhan...
i don't really know if the guy that's on my mind was my first love, but all i know is that he's my first crush? hehe well actually, when talking about first love, he's really the one that comes to my mind and he's also my puppy love! haha but we never become us...huh!
how frequently did i remember him? very seldom! haha. but there's still sometimes that i come to talk to him coz somehow they are close to our family.
well, your discussion just remind me of him again...
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@randylovesdar (4932)
• United States
20 Nov 09
I would rather forget my first love. He was very abusive towards me both verbally and physically. I am now married and I could not be happier. I am glad that my husband and I are togther. He makes me very happy.
I know that people do wish they can have something they cannot have. I never think about my first love because he had hurt me and there are times even to this day that I have nightmares.
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@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
19 Nov 09
I am 52. My first love came when I was 17. We still keep in touch by e-mail, although not recently. I live in Michigan. That's where we met. She moved to texas, I forget when. I have her in my yahoo address book.
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@Lucky09 (1763)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
hi borhan^^;;
my first love happens to be my childhood sweetheart too. i mean we were neighbors and playmates at the same time. though after elementary, we went to different highschools and separated. we never met until college due to same sports that we both engaged in our city. there we started dating. it didn't last long though since we were still young and our character didn't match...i mean we were both stubborn
we are still friends now and we don't feel awkward when we meet even with his wife and my hubby too..
@paleorainy (630)
• Italy
19 Nov 09
My first love...meaning the first person I really loved. I used to remember him for years and still one year ago I was heartbroken about him, I think it's been 4 years then, yes, get a life, I have a life, I also had other loves, but really never like the first. Now I don't think about him so much, actually I also have some difficulty to remember some details, the most is gone.
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
i am married to my wife for seven years now and i can say that i still remember my first love. she does too. but i no longer see her so there is still memories but i dont think its that clear i cherished more on what i have right now. my wife's first love is still her friend, and sometimes i feel a little odd for they remained to be friends but the guy did not marry, until now he is single. is it a choice? i dont know.
@nautilus33 (1827)
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20 Nov 09
Hi, I can't say if she was my first lo, because I was only child, but that was 14 years ago, and we were school-mates. I was thinking about her every day and night, but I was so shy to talk with her. In present days I don't remember her so often, but when I do that, I feel like in the old days and then I am happy in some strange way.
@yan_blue8 (1437)
• Philippines
20 Nov 09
Hi borhan!
Hmmm, i still remmber my first love and the pains he brought to me especially during the breakup. It was 6 years ago. But at times, when i hear our favorite song by that time, or i passed into our favorite place, i can't help it but remember him! And yes, this discussion reminds of him too
We have lots of common friends so at times they tend to ask how is he.. which is not good!
He now has a kid, so i don't bother to have communication with him anymore. We're not even friends
@abhishek336699 (20)
• India
20 Nov 09
actually you should replace the word love with affection because the first affection is misunderstood as first love generally. and first affection is the great thing which always occur ed in just a eye contact and in the most cases it is one sided.
i remember my first affection by telling about that with my new friend and family members