If We Get One Thing, Is It a must to Lose Another Thing?
By getbrowser
@getbrowser (1708)
China
November 20, 2009 3:06am CST
People often gain from losing, and lose from gain. Women changed men, men changed the world, these maybe truth.
We seem to understand cherish after losing, the people who don’t understand cherish isn’t eligible for owning it, losing make people gain more then know how to cherish. Gain and losing, which one gains more and understand better?
If we get one thing, is it a must to lose another thing? Life is full of fickleness, there is gain, there must be losing, you should know to cherish when you are gaining, learn to be relieved when you are losing, most people are greedy, if you want to gain more, would you like to lose?
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9 responses
@shuying8710 (260)
• China
27 Nov 09
i think most of the people are greedy and want to gain more and lose less.
for me,i want to get high salary and have much time for entertainment,while the high salary often ask you pay more time on working.
i want to be more healthy while i go to bed very late,i can't give up enjoying sufer online at night.
i love beauty while i love money too,i don't want to pay more money on make up or clothing.
you see,i want to gain more and reject to lose,but the God don't accept it.
in the end,i must make choice to gain the things which i think is more important to me,and give up the comparatively unimportant things.
@checkmail (2039)
• India
21 Nov 09
Hello getbrowser this is checkmail and often don't believe in this things that we must lose something in order to gain something.Yeah though we get sucess in somthings after failing in it doesn't means its a loss, but its a part of learning.Its the tie that we have to sacrifice in order to gain something.Even in numberical things one can only handle that much of things that he is able to manage, else he would have to give away the extra thing, which are nearly out of his control.This an nature rule that humans have some limits to its requirement, beyond that its all waste.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
21 Nov 09
We do have a saying that one needs to get rid of the old in order to make room for the new, but that does not apply to everything. I have noticed though, that for some people they have to lose sometimes in order to appreciate winning. I guess it is a matter of one's maturity and outlook.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
20 Nov 09
For everything positive, there has got a negative.. IN order to attract, we have to repel something.. haha =D This is how the world works, and evolve..
When we think we are actually gaining, we are actually losing something as well.. Though negliable, but by time we look back, only then we will realise how important are those losses.. hehe ^_^
For me, i wont mind losing anything, as long as i gain time.. haha =D
@celticeagle (166761)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Nov 09
And if you look at that way everything is a loss or everything is a win. It depends on how you look at it. It all pretty much depends on your outlook. Life is a series of choices. No reason to gain or lose. Play it straight and whatever happens is how it is meant to be. So take as it is.
@flywelcome (54)
• China
21 Nov 09
Of coursem, sometimes you want something,it is possible to lose another thing,but ultimately depends on how you go to grasp.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
20 Nov 09
It may seem that when we gain a loss will follow, but if the truth be known every issue or happening has two sides, most of the time we only notice the side that we are attracted to at the time it first comes to our attention. But with time and in retrospect we can see both the negative and positive of the situation. It is a basic truth that all things have both negative and positive energy. Some of the most terrible things that happen have over time proven to be of great benefit. Humans would continue to stay as they are until nature or circumstantes force them to change.
@honeywangpeng (48)
• China
20 Nov 09
Yeah,that's ture.sometimes if we want to get something ,we have to give up something,though we don't want to do that ,we have to. when we get something by losing aomething ,we may cherish what we get,and consider them to be more valuable.
Men are men. we all want to be better,we all want to get what we want ,but GOD is fair.
@agonyaunt69 (343)
• Hong Kong
20 Nov 09
I do not feel like losing anything but I have gained a lot in life. Life is short, I treasure every little moment when I am still here breathing. I can feel sadness and happiness, and it is life. Whatever experience that I had, it was a lesson, I learned and earned from that. Improvements are there, so I gain. Hope everyone looks at things in a positive way, as we have to live lively. Bringing and sharing happiness with others. Best wishes to all of you. Smile! :)
