should we be moral?
@honeywangpeng (48)
China
November 20, 2009 10:48am CST
I am still a student in college.our 4 classmates live in one room. most of the time we could get along well.but sometimes,someone of us just disturp the balance.
he would talk with the others who don't really want to have talks with him for such a long time.And sometimes he just make a voice-talk with someone throught the internetn till the midnight. we just want to have a good sleep,but we couln't.that our room.we live together.not his own room.
I think he shoud be moral,at least to be like a college student.
what do you think about this?and how should i do?
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4 responses
@Ann1986 (2)
• China
21 Nov 09
hi 15 ,I can understand your feelings,This time last year I have been to this distress.My roommate would not sleep before midnight and telephone chat with her boyfriend.Although her voices small enough I still can not sleep.So I told her of my difficulties,then the problem was resolved. Sometimes your roommate to do some things wrong,but you do not say that he may not understand it.And i think that there is always a solution.
@honeywangpeng (48)
• China
22 Nov 09
thanks .and i want to say you are 15,no offense.
but the truth is i don't want to do that.he is old enough to realize that.26?i think so.
and i have try to get some ways to solve that.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
21 Nov 09
Hi Honeywang. I think when people share living space should always be considerate of one another. If one out of four is creating a disturbance, perhaps the other three should suggest alternatives for him that would not be disturbing.
karen@honeywangpeng (48)
• China
22 Nov 09
yeah.i think we three shoud find a way out to solve this.and i hope we could.if not,oh,i don't know what should we do.but ,thanks a lot ,and welcome u to mylot .hope to see you again.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
20 Nov 09
Hi,honey,this is all depend on the culture and mentality of that him.But when it is not tolerable,one of your room mates would have say clearly about the disturbance he is making.
Have a nice time.
@pascal187 (93)
• China
10 Jan 10
i know what you are talking about...i am studying in china right now and have roommates. believe me the best thing to do is you all together talk to him at the same time like an intervention. if you say nothing he or she will continue to think its OK.
