why people are not carrying pen
@yugasini (12893)
Secunderabad, India
November 20, 2009 7:50pm CST
hi mylot friends,
i have observed several and most people are not carrying pen,they know clearly that they must require pen,still they are carry pen,it is compulsory to fill an application,bank chalan,application filling up at bus/rail,and asking the pen from other people,why people are doing like this,is it heavy to carry a pen,if any body asks pen to me,i get angry but i say nothing,because if i say some thing,i have to argue with them,if i for get to carry the pen ,i will purchase it immediately ,what about you?
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15 responses
@sajidsageer (267)
• India
21 Nov 09
Thats not fair, sometime i forget it too. At that time, i just lend it from someone. What happen? Why to get angry? It is all normal in India. We most of them, don't carry pen but carrying pen will help us in all situations.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
21 Nov 09
hi sajidsageer,
thanks for the response,it is better to carry pen,if forget carry it is better to carry in india it is available for a minimum of two rupees,that money can be affordable if not we can buy it below 5 ,there are lot of brands are selling pend below rupees five and they are good in writing also,have nice day
@sajidsageer (267)
• India
22 Nov 09
I am not agree U, sometimes we are not able to go to shop and buy. Imagine, if the shop is far or closed. At that time, What you do?
@balasri (26537)
• India
21 Nov 09
I find this trend prevalent in our country which I hate like anything.One doesn't expect a person to carry a pen all the time.But as a person goes to places like bank,offices and post office where the necessity of writing something crops up any time they tend to borrow pens from others with a stupid glee on their face.This habit arises from the irresponsibility and the callous attitude of disturbing strangers.We always forget to teach the basic etiquettes in the school and the government doesn't even bother to send all the children to school.
@balasri (26537)
• India
24 Nov 09
Yes Yugasini.People are just graduated here not educated.They behave in very unpolished way in public.They do not know the nuance of greeting each other and do not know to keep the level of noise in public.The more louder the more merriment they think.Totally I just cannot see the niceties of life any more here.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Nov 09
hi balasri,
thanks for the response,sorry for the late response,it is compulsary to teach basic etiquettes in the school and the government should implement to teach them mandatarily,but no one is caring all are going on higher studies and getting more score only,have a nice day
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@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
21 Nov 09
I too always carry a pen, well when I remember. Sometimes I become forgetful and I believe that is what happens to some people. I get aggrivated some times though when I go someplace such as a bank or whatever and I forget a pen or a I lose my pen, then when I ask someone who works in a place that should be required to carry a pen and they state that they don't have one. That truely makes me upset and then they have to ask other people that they work with if they have a pen that I could borrow. That has happened to me so many times for me to count and I shouldn't become forgetful any more and just start carrying a pen with me when I go to places such as a bank to use a pen.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Nov 09
hi trisha,
thanks for the response,sorry for the late reply,are you real trisha,i feel also when borrowing pen from others so,i will purchase it immediately without asking any person for pen,now pens are available in cheep rates below rs 5.00,so keep an extra pen in your bag or purse is better,have a nice day
@shilley (155)
• India
21 Nov 09
Yugasini,you are exactly like me.I do the same.I carry a pen always where ever i go,but if any time it is missing i will buy a new one instead of asking others.When people ask me for a pen i do give them,but i always doubt if they will return my pen.Because i have seen people who do not carry a pen,are also quite irresponsible and do not return others borrowed pen also.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Nov 09
hi shilley,
thanks for the response ,sorry for the late reply,so both of our feelings are sane and some thing common,if you are interested in friendship with me add me as your friend,we can share a lot of thing,i am strait forward person,i take care in all things,some times due to neglegence they fail,have a nice day and waiting for your friendship request.
@soybeans612 (122)
• United States
21 Nov 09
Most of the times I go out I never need a pen to fill anything out and I think most people don't carry a writing utensil with them simply because of that: they never need it. It's not to say they should just disregard it completely but I guess some people don't feel it's necessary. And when you have to fill something important out, if you go to a bank or wherever, there's always extra pens for you to write with. I guess it just depends on the situation. Most people fill out important forms at home if they're not filling it out in a bank or wherever, so they just don't feel the need to bring it.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Nov 09
hi soybeans,
thanks for the response,sorry for the late,in my view it is better to carry pen ,while going out side,it will help us in many ways,and mostly i am not missing to carry my pen every day, i hate people thinking it is a burden to carry pen,have a nice day
@chiranshahi (6)
•
21 Nov 09
carrying pen is not compalsory bcoze if we need 2 write something then we'll buy or borrow frm others . while carying the pen . we kept it into our pant or in shirt .it'll fall so it can be loss . while goinging to the office their we can find pen to write.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Nov 09
hi chiranshahi,
thanks for the response sorry for the late reply, i should not accept the negligence any where ,we must take care of every thing,it is very shame full to borrow pen from others,that person must wait untill your work to be done with that pen,they might have some urgent work to them,it is better to carry a pen in my view ,have a nice day
@VKXY62 (1605)
• Australia
21 Nov 09
Hi, they are forgetful perhaps, or just silly and absent minded.
I usually carry a pen and a small notebook with me.
Sometimes a pencil as well, you know how it is with biro pens.
Usually when you want to scribble a note down or leave a message on a door if someone wasn't at home, they don't work, or run out of ink, half way through the message. I hate that, so a pencil as well.
But, you are correct about filling out official and legal paper work.
It must always be in ink or pen, a pencil is not ok for those.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Nov 09
hi vkxy,
thanks for the response,i am also carrying a small spiral note book,for write down important things and account of money transactions,but i do not know about biro pens,let me know more about biro pens,first time i am hearing about biro pens,have a nice day
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
21 Nov 09
People usually carry pen along with them. Sometimes the pen may not be writing, ink would have exhausted. Sometimes they would have changed the handbag and in a hurry they would have forgotten that pen is not there in this bag. It is a small matter. If you have to buy a pen, you have to go out to the shop, buy and come. They may be in a hurry. I am a person always carrying two pens in my handbag. But one day I had to run to the bank as there was only 30 minutes left for the closing hours. I forgot to take pen and I borrowed it from some one. Though it is a rare thing that happened for me, how will the other person know that? So forgive these small nuisances friend. You do not know when you will do the same without your knowledge.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
21 Nov 09
hi buchi_bulla,
thanks for the response,i am not pin pointing the people who are not carrying pen intentially,that they thing that it is burden to them and not carrying pen is fashion to them,there are lot of these type of people in our area,my discussion is mainly on our people only,have a nice day
@sridharsahu (544)
• India
21 Nov 09
I have noticed this change may be due to an apparrel shift of clothing sense of casuals
men nowadays prefer t-shirts and jeans neither of which have a suitable place to hold a pen.
so this may be the reason.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Nov 09
hi sridharsahu,
thanks for the response,sorry for the late response,i know that some type of t-shirts and jeans does not have pockets to keep some pen or paper,at that time i will be feeling difficulty in carrying pen and other things,but at that time i will put the same in my bag,have a nice day
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
21 Nov 09
simply because people nowadays are lazy to write and people are lazy to read. people have been consumed with other things like technology that they tend to regret such basic stuff!
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Nov 09
hi jazel_juan,
thanks for the response,sorry for the delay in reply,people are very lazy and negligence also in all these days,they are not bothering for any thing,leave it some thing on the road,they do not have the common sense to keep clean their places also,have a nice day
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
21 Nov 09
Hi Yugasini.
I do carry ink pens with me when I go out...two in my purse in case one runs out of ink. Some people, perhaps, just forget or don't think of it.
Karen
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
21 Nov 09
hi karen madam,thanks for the response it is more better carrying two more pens instead one pen,if pen runout in middle,we may not ask a stranger for pen,i feel most of the time asking pen or change(small coins and notes) from others,so most of the day i will carry pen small change and small denomination notes,have a nice day
@pradeeptheone (49)
• India
21 Nov 09
hi,it is a quite common aspect we come across ,even i was also in the stream of gang who doesn't carry a pen, i used carry it in bag,but i won't carry bag to everywhere so i too depend on others,i don't have a habit to keep it in pocket,i'l also try to keep it pocket.....
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
21 Nov 09
hi pradeeptheone,
thanks for the response,i sincerely request you to carry pen regularly,it is compulsory and necessary to every body,now a days our activities are grown and the necessity of using pen also increased,have a nice day
@agonyaunt69 (343)
• Hong Kong
21 Nov 09
It is always a good habit to bring a pen and a tiny notepad, too. I sometimes forgot to bring my pen when I had changed another handbag. You're right, not many people have such a habit.
In Hong Kong, it is not a must to bring a pen, as all the banks, post offices, department stores or government departments attached pens at the desks and counters. Even small boutiques, they have pens for customers to sign the credit card payment slips. Therefore, people do not need to borrow pens from others.
Have a good day!
agonyaunt69
(10:45am Friday 20 Nov 2009 Hong Kong time)
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
24 Nov 09
hi agonyaunt,
thanks for the response,sorry for the delay in giving response to you,here also some establishments will have pens for customers,here customers are every clever,they do not return the pens or pencils ,but some people return the same to the concerned,have a nice day
@puttycat1 (58)
•
26 Nov 09
Id say most people are forgetful...... im especially guilty of that...lol
Another problem could be that people might be afraid if the pens bursting in their pockets.......thats happened many times to me.
I carry a few pens in my school blazer when I can but I definately hear many people asking me for pens... :-(
If we are walking around school and they quickly need to write down something on a form I dont mind since its annoying fishing through your bag for a pen but it really gets on my nerves when people for some reason have no pens in their pencil case and I lend them a pen and I never see it again. Most of the time that person comes back the next day and asks to borrow another pen.... :-P
If I didnt fancy the guy he would get a smack around the head!!