from friend to lovers, Yes. but lovers to friends,No.
@edquilangnovemia (16)
Philippines
4 responses
@abhikmjmdr (779)
• India
22 Nov 09
I do not think that is not possible.One can always remain friends even if trying out being lovers does not work.There is reason to give up totally on a relationship if a facet does not go as perceived.
@moonlitpriest (293)
• Philippines
21 Nov 09
I don't agree with that, well I guess we have different perception on how to look on things like this.
friend to lovers yes, because definitely, you really can't tell the future and they say that the more you are together the more stronger the relationship will be, so the more years you are together the more possibility that you will fall for it (loving that person).
lovers to friends? yes and It really doesn't matter. why is that? , because - I'll ask this with a question and you answer it. don't you love your friends? will you not be selfish if you force that person to be with you because you love him or will you not be selfish of not letting that person to be your friend because your hurt and don't want to see that person anymore, will it not be unfair to that person if you do that.
well I guess it'll be okay if the both of you decided to not have any communication anymore, but if one of you ask to degrade your relationship to being friends. I guess it'll be selfish if you'll not accept it.
I'm really not good in english, sorry for that but I hope you got the meaning of what I've said. haha
@undecoverbro (96)
• India
21 Nov 09
Dude first of all i dont know how old you are but anyways every year your mind will change till the day u get out of school or ur technical instituion cause as long as ur in the school atmosphere u will have all these kinda crappy thaughts in your head once u get out and go to work all your thaughts would change and no friends are not the only way to get gurl friends it depends on what your looking for
When you look at a gurl and shes hot and u want to own her or posses her then look at your motives why do u want her do u want her cause she looks hot or do u want her cause u like her charecter her attetude in short do u like her for her looks or for who she is thats all u need to know and if u like her for her looks it wont last long cause once she becomes fluffy or chubby or fat in short she will eventually loose her looks and so would u loose intrest in her its called a crush
Anywyas if u really like someone for who she is thats really good it can be anyone it dosent matter if it is your friend or the gurl next door and its always better to marry your best friend rather than a gurl next door cause your best friend will know what u really want
Peace !