I wish life had a forward button just like some cd palyers....
By shona264
@shona264 (167)
India
November 21, 2009 6:13am CST
Life is not so long,but much complicated..The more we are involved in relations,the more complicated it seems to become.But how do we know which relation to trust and which not to.There are many relations which doesn't last long and with that going relation we get lot of pain,depression,anxiety,etc.It hurts a lot when a relation,that you think is very strong is broken.I always wished that life had a forward button,so that I could see which relation is forever and which relation is going to break.And then I would choose which relation to get in and which not to.
What do you think guys?
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8 responses
@scoutsniper85 (432)
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23 Nov 09
I think there's no need to see the future. Having one step at a time what matters most. Just go with the flow of your life..If your hurt, then let it be. We are humans that need to realize that things are not in our control.. Just live life the way it is to be..
@shonepen007 (111)
• India
22 Nov 09
Its life yaar..Life has got many twsts and turns,wast highways,forest roads,many f1 tracks,etc..if there is forward button for life we may not even know what we will be..In our we r deciding wht we want to be and how we should be..So lets decide and make motto..Walk slowly towards it..this is life pal..hats the hurry..
Life is a game..So we have to play it..
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
22 Nov 09
Hi Shona and welcome to mylot!
I do know what you are saying about getting hurt and all. I've had my heart broken a few times also. I have learned not to expect "forever" when I start seeing someone. Of course you always hope that it will be but I always know that it may not be. In that way of thinking, I can just enjoy the person for every moment that they are a part of my life. You really would not want to fast forward your relationships because then you wouldn't get to savor all the fun parts. There is no way to know ahead of time who to trust and who not to. Communication from the start does help. I tell the person right up front that if it is not working for him then just tell me and we will part peacefully and still remain on friendly terms and I will do the same. For the most part that has really worked. It still hurts when it ends and it isn't my choice but once the crying is done I have to say, I still have a great deal of respect for him. If a man lies to me or cheats...deal breaker...I'm done and so is the possibility of a friendship afterwards.
@MJAL08 (275)
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22 Nov 09
I know that most of the time we people complain about or life, its so hard, nothings going right blah blah blah. I want to fast forward, rewind, pause and stop. But here's the thing no matter now depressed or broken a person is, the world won't stop as you do, it will continue to spin with or without your permission.
Its alright to slow down put don't stop, continue existing, moving forward not backward. Life was fair fair from the very beginning.
Complaining won't solve anything. Its either you do something or ignore it, your choice.
Life is a road each of us has to take, there will be bumps, traffic light and irritating drivers along the way.
Take life's obstacles as challenges not problems.
@Apple3Cranberry (678)
• United States
22 Nov 09
Sometimes I wish I could just fast forward too. Go. And then you'll be somewhere else. And then you won't have to do anything. You can always change.
Be brave. And gain weight. Like really. Or yoga while you're fat. I've never tried that. You could be happy in horrid times.
I can't describe this. But loud music. Oh ya. Really loud. Oh. And then depression is horrible. Especially if you are overly trusting. I know. No. Wait. And then you're really darling and prettier than the rest but really you're ugly. You're just ugly for some reason. And you might even have anorexia or something but who knows, it's not like anybody cares. I mean, who cares if someone is really skinny? Lol.
I don't. Wait!
Crap. When I fit into a zero. It got kind of loose. But oh ya. Starlight you know?
And if you hold my hand we'll be OK. I can't believe it.
Some people. My zero jeans are thrown away. Out the door. Just because someone called in sick when the doctors asked her to. That's wrong to say. But I thought they were mine, thought Abercrombie made them for me. So the doctors called me instead, and I got a ticket, for a bed. Whatever. Fast FORWARD!!!!! aaaaghghghh.
@IceQueenNJ973 (28)
• United States
22 Nov 09
A forward button?? I wish life had a rewind button so I could go back to being a little girl before life got so complicated and all I had to worry about was whether or not my mother was going to buy me the toy I wanted...honestly, don't wish your life away. I have had many bad relationships and I used to get very very down about them ending because I used to feel like I wasted my time but now I see them as a learning experience, not a waste of my time. You will find the right one but you have to kiss a few frogs before you do. Just focus on yourself and let love find you - don't go looking for love.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
21 Nov 09
Hi Shona
Never wish your Life away
There is always a reason for everything, I had to learn that to and for many years I wondered why
It is Life, hurt, love, depressions, pain, loosing People, meeting People, making mistakes, it is all part of Life and the only way it can get you is if you let it, if you do not fight back and go forward
Life is a lesson and if you learn the first time round you are a winner but if you do the mistake over and over again you are letting it win
There is no knowledge for the future, you have to take it step by step and make the most of what you have
@E147258369 (46)
• Australia
21 Nov 09
I remember in high school i just wanted to skip the whole day!