What will you do in this situation?
By lichee_china
@lichee_china (506)
China
November 22, 2009 2:29am CST
Your two best friend are quarrel in front of you,and they don't listen to you.you have said a lot to stop them,but it doesn't work,your friends are still quarrel and even worse.what will you do?I give both of them a box on the ear.I just don't know how to stop them,I am a bad guy.
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7 responses
@honeywangpeng (48)
• China
22 Nov 09
in this situation,i would say:ok,boys,go on and fight,i will bet which one of you can win.no matter who lost the fight ,he shoule treat us.
and you know what,they will stop immediatly.
I don't know why that worked so well.I just want to make a bet and have a free meal.that is what i thought.i think they must misunderstood what i said.that is why they stop.
haha.can you give me 'THE BEST RESPONSE'?
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Nov 09
you might just have gotten your comment deleted as it breaks the rule do not ask for people to give you best response. did you ever read the mylot rules,they are there to be read by all of us. newcomers too.
@smile823 (45)
• China
22 Nov 09
Hello,dear friend.Welcome to mylot.In this situation,you can stand next to remain silent,wait for them to calm down and then get them to talk about your feelings.Choose to leave and stuff your ears,they will feel that you are not really good friends.
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
24 Nov 09
No, of course you are not a bad guy. All you want is for your friends to get along. I have some friends that quarrel, but then they laugh afterward. I think that is just the kind of relationship that they have. I guess some people are just strange that way.
However, if your friends are really arguing maybe it is better if you just sigh, and walk away. That way they will realize how ridiculous that they are being. Good luck with your friends, and have a good day!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Nov 09
lichee__china well now I think after trying all other things
I would just get in 
between them and yell at the top of my lungs, "will you two shut the heck up?"
and then walk softly and quietly away. I bet that would work
just fine.
between them and yell at the top of my lungs, "will you two shut the heck up?"
and then walk softly and quietly away. I bet that would work
just fine.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
22 Nov 09
Well, in that case though you already try to stop them and they still continue quarreling. I think no one like to give way. If i am you i would let them do the arguments until they get tired that is the only way they could stop or until their both have a clear mind to decide to settle their differences.
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@happyshopping (27)
• China
23 Nov 09
I used to have meet with your situation many times,I also did not know what to do at that time ,This situation is really not easy to resolve,I suggested you do nothing now,when your friends do not be angry with each other,you can do something let them to be friend once more.sorry my english is a little poor,please forgive me
@CelticSoulSister (1640)
• Southend-On-Sea, England
22 Nov 09
I'd probably gently ask them to stop, but if they wouldn't, I'd leave the situation and let them sort out their own differences with one another.
