Why I Felt Bad,when i don't see Comments on my Responses to other's Discussion..

i know the feeling balu, but don't be sad as other posters don't have much time to get back on their discussions and finally forget it. i know others are just really lazy to get back since we can see them still starting new discussions while neglecting to comment back on their older discussions on that day but we cannot force them to do so. i was off from mylot for weeks and started responding to lots of discussions last friday but to my dismay, only few were answered back too. well, i don't get pretty upset since all other responses are also not responded. maybe i would feel worse if only my response was not commented.

Dont feel bad PM your friends and ask them to respond to a discussion! They wont mind thats what everyone is here for! I have never gotten 50-100 responses on any of my discussions but I hardly ever make them I tend to reply therefore I dont really get upset if people dont respond to me.

Don't let the actions (or lack of actions) by others make you feel bad. If you do something wrong then I can quite understand that you could feel bad about it but if you respond and then another person does not comment to you, you are not responsable. Just like offline when you speak to someone. It is them that is being rude if they do not acknowledge you surely? It can't be your fault for having spoken to them in the first place can it? Just remember that next tim eyou respond to them you might get the same treatment again. If it upsets you then skip their discussions

hello baluyadav... you feel bad coz you are expecting...just bear in mind, that we are all different people here and that people are not like you...some don't comment back coz maybe they are just busy? or just got nothing to say more...or maybe yes, they didn't realize yet the importance of commenting back...something like that... with you, i think for you not to be upset, just don't expect from others to comment back on your responses so that you don't get disappointed...don't let it ruin the fun that we are having here... happy weekend!

I don't know why I have been on this site for about 7 months and I am just now beginning to understand it more and more everyday and I do like responding and starting discussions.I think it's great!!;]

Hi, I have the same thought once a while. But after I know that most people have no knowledge that they earn for commenting their response too. Some have no time in that case it is me. I get some 35 - 50 responses for most of my discussions except discussions related to earnings. So, I would sometimes be tired of giving comments to all the responses. But I will go and check back my response often but often comes in disappointment. Cheers... Have a nice day and happy mylotting.

Hi Balu, I am posting my responses and simply forgetting about it. If the poster was a close friend and didn’t get answer within a week I would definitely ask what happened to him/her. I would be the happiest person to read the comments on my responses but I never feel bad if anybody fail to respond back because the control is not in our hands. For me I am giving my comments to all but if I received a huge number of responses then it may be late. By replying on the same topic repeatedly will make us bore so I just give a gap in between comments. I do respect all people’s views and really thankful to them for making time to post their reply. Please don't feel bad because the matter is not in our control, just be happy and post your views.

hi baluyadav sometimes we get so many we get behind and we can only do so much in a day.even retired I do have some other commitments besides mylot that I must attend here at Gold Crest but I take my discussions seriously and do try to get back to all of you and will just give me some time please. I realize that these mylot friends have taken the pains to respond and I owe them my comments. so will do it.

hi baluyadav, Well, for me I just started to on my notification as for too long I have not use it and now I know that it is much easy to allow my email to receive notification from my lot as i could reply to the pages I commented and reply back to the poster. i am started to learn it as the fast way to comment back. Although, I admit myself i could not response in an instant as i am busy sometimes but i do assure all those who response on me would be reply by me as i make sure i read them individually rather than just replying without reading their heartfelt reply. That is why it takes me longer to reply as, I really read them all one by one and absorbing delicately their messages that I really appreciate their times that they also deserve a prompt reply on me. Though, I notice their are many poster whom I look on their profile they never response any single reply from the respondents which is very true like the sentiments you mention as I truly sympathize with you...have a nice day!

Oh, I understand how you feel, Balu. I got the same kind of feeling before, but not as frequent as last time. I just respond to discussions as my normal activities to participate and earn from that. If the posters do comment back on my responses, it's a good feeling because what I am saying have actually being read and I would see that if I can add something more to those discussions so that the conversations will be going on and on. If I haven't received any comment after some time, I will just let it be. Some members may be plain lazy to go back to their old discussions or have run of ideas on how to interact with other members' responses or having little time to respond all responses at once or because they just don't know quite well about the topics they are discussing or could be they are missing the notifications and worse, they probably hate our answers! That's what I observe... So, we do just what we do, but of course, the discussions have no meaning if there are no responses. We cannot force them to respond, so, on a positive note, we still earn and they gain nothing.

...Hi Baluyadav, I am like you, I would like my comment to be responded to, but everyone does not feel it necessary to reply. I really want to know what the individual thought of the comment, if it helped in any way. I guess everyone has their own way of doing things on the site and responding to replies may just not be one of their priorities. Take care.

Of course not.I make sure you very normal.I have many times like your situation.YOU must make sure you are ok!!!!!When we have problem ,we shuold speak out it,you're right.AND at mylot have many good heart...my friend.GOOD LUCK TO YOUR...!

Don't feel bad, because I don't think anyone thinks "yeah, what this person wrote is useless so I don't want to reply." I think on this site a lot of people are just concerned about commenting as much as they can, and most times they just comment to discussions instead of really going back to check to see if someone commented on a post they wrote. So, I do understand how you would feel bad, but I think most people just want to comment as much as possible per day and they don't really have the time to go back and see what someone wrote in response to what they wrote.

You feel bad may be because you response to discussions sincerely. You may take it as a respect if you got reply.

Hello Baluyadav, I do respond to replies, but not as much as a direct reply to a discussion. I try to read and look for discussions I can leave some useful comment on, sometimes it is impossible, I need to go back and look at one that I knew nothing of, see if the OP has enlightened me any.

I feel the same way Baluyadav. I don't start that many discussions, mostly I respond, but when I do start them I try to reply to every response. That's the whole point here, is to start discussions. A discussion is not just a matter of dropping a statement and then ignoring responses to it. That's not a discussion at all. A discussion is the exchange of thoughts, ideas and information. Sometimes discussions are quite serious, other times they are light and amusing, but without the 'back and forth' of the dialog...they aren't discussions at all. I have had people on my friends list who start excellent discussions...sometimes 10 or 15 per day. I don't respond to every discussion, but when I do I try to put some thought into it. When I find that I never get responses, I have to assume that the originator of the discussion does not care about what I think. So, instead of bothering them further with my responses, I turn off the notify feature so that I no longer even know about their discussions and eventually delete them as friends. And just to clarify, I'm NOT talking about those who sometimes don't reply, that happens to us all. I'm specifically talking about those who NEVER respond. Those people shouldn't be starting something that they can't finish, and if they do, I want no part of it.

Hello, Balu. It's nothing personal - some people just do not comment on responses, because they mistakenly believe that they earn from starting lots of discussions. The more sensible members here realise that you only get paid for what you write, and that if you don't make quality responses, you don't earn anything. I used to get annoyed by this, but now I just avoid those members who never comment on responses. It's their loss, but I'm here for the discussions, not to talk to myself. There are plenty of members who are more than willing to comment and extend the discussion.

I completely understand where you are coming from. It too gets to me when I respond to someone elses discussion and then in return I get no response. But sometimes people may not know what to respond back to you with or may not have the time. I know sometimes I may not respond back to a response because I'm not sure what to respond back with.

Hello, Baluyadav. Don't worry, I used to feel bad when I did not get response on my comment in forums, but now I realize that sometimes all that need to be said is the thing that I wrote already. So I finally realized that sometimes one person can close a discussion or at least manage to say all to be said in one of the directions a discussion can go. But then there is another problem. Some people need to see responses on their writings. This is some kind of mental problem - desire for attention. I was like that too - always upset if someone do not want to hear what I have to say, if they do not respond to my posts etc. But then I realized that it is no need to be upset, just different people think different, have different interests and still they somehow think in common. So sometimes if you don't get response to your comment it might be because there is nothing more to be said, or because they think like you and cant argue for it. Happy myLoting :)