what is your opinion about your family

India
November 22, 2009 1:44pm CST
what is your opinion about your family.do you think you have a perfect family
14 responses
@tanu6a (84)
• United States
22 Nov 09
I wish I had a perfect family.When you are little you don't notice a lot of things that are going on around you.My mom and dad never fought in front of us but later on it was obvious they didn't have a perfect relationship.Then one day when everything seamed fine my dad decide that he wants to be free and he divorced my mom so he can marry an old Scottish "lady".Then 2 years after he divorced her and now is trying to repair the relationship with my mom.I hope that she will give him a really hard time before taking him back.I don't have respect for him anymore and we hardly speak.Because he was the last person that I would think be able to cause so much pain to his family now I am very coshes and don't trust my husband 100%.I think I should expect and be prepared for everything.Actually I don't know anyone that really have a perfect family,but I know a lot of families that will pretend that they are.
• India
22 Nov 09
thanks a lot.hope everything will go right with u
• United States
1 Dec 11
i don't have a perfect family. my family is real crazy loud puerto ricans lol but i love them. in my house is always someone making fun of somebody. and lots of fights especially in holidays
• India
5 Aug 10
thanks to god i have a perfect family ..ya sometimes we tend to think weird about our family but later every one will find that their family has always done which was right and good for them...
• India
26 Jan 11
hi seriously i am lucky to get a great family like this!.My parents will take care of me like anythin and they will help us in all aspects and understand me too very well..i've got one sister..she will also understand things and we both will be together always..it will be like heaven being at my house:)!. i love my family and they too luv me:))!.lol:)
@Sunehant (57)
• India
8 Feb 11
Nothing is perfect. That also applies to my family. But I love my family to the fullest and with all my heart and soul. its not because I can't change it or I don't have option. I love them because they are reason why I am working and why I am trying hard to give them better life. They have supported me and raised me without any expectation. So, they are my responsibility and this responsibility is my pleasure.
@bnsp09 (258)
• United States
28 Nov 11
My family is so far from perfect it's not even funny! My dad is disabled, my mom says she's sick and hasn't worked in over a year (I think she's said she's sick so much she believes it) My brother n his family chose family over friends, my other sister married her husband b/c she felt it was too late to call off the wedding and she chooses to clean over taking care of her kids and what they need. My other sister & husband have the worst luck and I'm a divorced mother of two young kids. So perfect is no where close to our family! Every holiday or event is full of drama and just more of a head ache then it's worth! wish I had a family with a lot less drama, health issues and a little more money!
• China
25 Nov 09
When I was child, I thought my family was a perfect one and my parents were perfect,too. Today, I am 24, I begin to understand everything from two sides. I find that every family has differet problems respectively. So does mine. But my family is still OK generally. Some tiny trifles are unable to avoid. So don't be too pessimistic on your family. Just be optimistic, and try your best to deal with your family trifles as possible as you can. I hope your family is perfect!
@sachii315 (488)
• Japan
8 Dec 09
My family is good but not really perfect. But I really admire how my family worked out differences and everyone try to help out during times of problems. Different cultures and values, but it was nothing complicated. My parents raised an ideal and loving family. They did a good job. I'm proud of my family.
• Indonesia
25 Nov 09
i dont have a perfect family.. my parents always have a different side idea, and always get their children confuse. sometimes i tink they dont care about their child anymore rather than theirself
@mawong79 (215)
• Malaysia
25 Nov 09
I wish my family to be the best one not perfect in my life. We always trust that our Lord will guide & protect us.
@eubilisa (211)
• Philippines
23 Nov 09
I don't have a perfect family because when you say perfect family it should be complete in a sense that there's a father, mother and the children but in our case we had no father on our side and my mother is also not with us because she has to work abroad in order to supports us. Life is unfair but that's life we should accept what God has given to us whether its perfect or not because at the end of the day what matters is you know where to go and what path to choose.
• India
25 Nov 09
Yes!! I have got a perfect family. I along with my dad and mom has formed a perfect family. We can understand each other and can sacrifice our life for each other. I since birth have seen that my parents have taken care of me. Whenever I needed I got everything despite their abilities. Now, I understand their abilities so unlike my childhood I don't demand to fulfil my desires. But whenever I face problem they approach to me and solve the problem beautifully. Whenever I wish to have some mouth watering dish I just ask to my mom and she prepares for it. Whenever I need money or other material goods and needs I ask to my dad and he get me that. I am extremely happy to have a parents like them. I think I can return them whatever they have done for me when I will earn money. I will take care of them, will fulfil their wishes and will always stand by them.
• China
9 Dec 09
yeah~ Compare to the single-parent family, I feel so happy that we are together in a house, that's called home. However, in our words, "every family is like a recondite sacred book". That means you can't really know about the meaning of a family. When you get hurted, family is like a refuge harbor; when you want to leave away, family becomes a unwanted fixture to you... Family, it's hard to understand.
@mdude53 (29)
• Romania
11 Jul 10
"No one is perfect... that's why pencils have erasers." I don't think that there is such thing as a perfect family. Every family has its ups and downs, but that's what makes it unique. I love my family and even though sometimes I wish my parents gave me more freedom or bought me a dog or stuff like that, I still would not like having other family.