Are you afraid of getting married?

My too. I understand that completely. If everyone had a little sign above their head telling me what kind of person they really were, then perhaps I'd be more willing to try it. But I have no way of knowing if girl X is a psycho nut case, and girl Y is a wonderful loving faithful person. Since I can't tell, and people can lie pretty convincingly, I really don't want to try it. Maybe when I'm 55 years old, I'll risk it, but that's another 23 years away.

well im young i quess but I am thinking of getting married someday. I am scared too, apartly I think its because of my age. I think if you had Mr.right for few years, maybe then fear would go away :). sorry for my bad english.

At the moment no I am not currenlty afraid of getting married at all because who I believe is the one to be the one that I will marry is so amazingly perfect for me that I don't see me being worried at all about marrying her. Maybe if I had a different girlfriend I would be worried but if you know the one's perfect then she generally is.

I am not afraid of getting married at all. I think far too many people are today though. Too afraid to make a commitiment maybe because they are too afraid that they might have to work on a relationship much harder than if they didn't get married. Things are just made too easy for people these days. Marriage is a blessing, not a prison sentence.

Hi lynn, Explore more about yourself, your talents, your emotional maturity, intellectual growth and your social life. These might change of your opinion if you will go into marriage or not. You are still young at that age, and the way you foresee things will change as you age, that is if you are open for changes. Have fun with single life and know more yourself.

marriage, in no way kills your aspirations. its a support that guide you anywhere when u get a suitable Mr. so selection is yours. as a married man i feel so much previlleged to ahave a wonderful wife who guides me always. so be confident in marriages.

Well dont get afraid. I got married at the same age and now i am living happily with 2 kids and wife. My friend its very true that marriage will bring problems with it but i have experienced no matter whenever you got married maybe after 10 years you have to pass through that problems so just get married right now and start enjoying a family life and you will soon pass through that problem period after marriage. Again not getting married is not a solution, no matter how late you go for it you must have to pass through some issues in family and financially.

I do understand your parents fear of you still single at this age. They fear that you will never get married and ends up as a spinster. Once your biological clock reaches the end, the chances of having children is almost nil. I was married at 24 and never regret it as now my kids are all grown up and are on their own. So why wait any longer, open up your heart and accept love in your life. It is the best thing that you can give to yourself.

I was not afraid to get married to my husband and even before our talk of marriage, I was not afraid at any time that I can recall. I am sure it can be a scary thing if you let yourself think about it, but the thing about love is that it gets you through. If your worried about the little things don't. All I can say is save a little bit of money and whatever you do don't spend it. When you marry you'll need it for yours and your husband's future.

If you are feeling fear you are not ready.

No, I'm not afraid of getting married. The truth I'm looking for someone to marry but I think not yet the time for me to find someone that loves as I am...Why, are you afraid of getting married, my friend?

I can't wait to get married! I'm only 21 but I have've been imagining myself getting married a lot of times. I already have a candidate for a wife and I hope I can fulfill that intention with her in 3 or 4 years from now. I just really wanna have a family that I can take care of, and by being married I can be a more responsible and wise person. So I think there's no reason you should be afraid of getting married, you just have to find the right person.

yes, it is afraid of me, i'm worried more, such as where is my Mr. Right ? how to get married on our financially not ready yet? Am I ready to cope changes between single life to married life ? shall i get married with anyone else under the age nearly reach thirty or still single for ever.those question annoying more in my mind.how to step by step is a such more problem. i also don't know how to do it, so that i stop think more and everything would be comes naturally someday, when the day comes,i will know how to choose,perhaps the day is when i meet my Mr. Right. good luck and have a nice day!

Don't worry about your age, lynn. :) I just turned 27 and I've never been married, and this does not bother me. I've had a couple of long-term relationships that could have turned into marriage, but I didn't feel right about it and I don't regret my refusals. There is too much more I want to do with my life first, and I want to be sure I'm with the right person. I'm beginning to feel some pressure from family, coworkers, and others, but I try not to let it bother me. When I see so many people who married young and who now have unhappy marriages, divorces, and kids with broken homes (like I came from), I feel reassured that I've made the right choice for myself. They say that when you no longer have to ask if you are ready for marriage, then you know that you are ready. Until then, my advice would be to respectfully brush aside the concerns of others, and focus on the things that are important to you. A happy, fulfilled person is more likely to have a happy, fulfilled marriage! :)

I don't think you should marry if you are not ready, marriage is a life time commitment, many people get married for the wrong reasons and end up getting a divorce in 1 or 2 years into the marriage. I know there are some cultures that the marriage choice is made for you, i have never agreed with that, but that is how things are done in certain countries and they have to be respected. But if you are not ready and do have a choice, don't let anyone push you into it, because in the long run, you are the one who has to share a life with this person.

Hi Lynn, I guess you are a chinese as well. I am a chinese, and i am 25 years old, and i am getting marry next week. If you ask me if i am afraid of marriage or not, i can't tell. But i think marriage is something that need 2 peoples effort, one day, when you meet your Mr. Right, and you love him so much, you want to be with him forever, you will not afraid marriage then. Don't be afraid, you will be okay!

Your parents concern you, you are 24 years old, it's the age for marriage. However, you don't need to rush marriage speedily,it is necessary for you to find a good guy to marry.You can talk with your parents, and tell them don't worry your marraige, sometimes marraige need predestined relationship, when you want to marry then you will be marry. Best wishes.

Hi lynnzheng why should we afraid of marriage?If you married with someone,that must means the one you choose is your Mr,right! Otherwise if you married with someon your parents choose,i dont think its a good idea. anyway i hope if you want to the marriage you shoul find people who love you and you like him.maybe love is more important ,but in marriage,suitable is much more important. Good luck with you !

its like nightmare that frighteners your night. and marriage is the speedway you can ride on. so don't be afraid or you will contrite

hi marriage is ahappy and a nice moment in life and this makes the sharing of everything with our partner good luck