What would you do if....

i am such a person that I would consider myself very unluckythat i got such a selfish life partner but i have to manage my life with him as there is no other option here left in our community as girls have to go on with the goings without any complaint.

Hi friend, This is hypothesis as well as a cituation in reality. As to me, i have that reality and i would firstly forgive her primary purpose and save our marriage. And if her is still prefer inheritance than me and i would file a divorce. By the way, i am a not wealthy man.

Well first of all, i will consider my feelings to him first, if i really do love him and he only loves my money, i think i could still give him a chance. But if he really does not love me in return and is having an affair with somebody else, i think that will be the time that i will file a divorce or annulment.

though i get mad in the begining i have a hope that u can change the persons attitude with true love .so forgiving and giving a chance to change their attitude is not a bad idea.

I think i will give him a chance once to change his mindset and i will love him in such a way that he can change his opinion and love me in that positive way i will save my life and make my married life more happier.what do you think about it?

That would be unfair if you are still going to be together just because he is going to get something from you. If you love him, you will probably think twice about it but for sure you'll end up having a divorce. For me, you can't save your marriage because on the first place he has no love for you at all.

levite, In the first place, how did the both of you end up in marriage then? Can you remember the rationale of your decision? And since your discovery (I wonder how) what does the other party want? If he is really after your heirloom, then I don't suppose anything other than a generous divorce settlement will solve the problem between the both of you. Whether this marriage could be saved is not your lone say as it will need two hands to clap and mutuality for this marriage to thrive. Yet, even if the other party has awakened and willing to continue, there's still your acceptance part to consider. Take care.

I don't have time for games. I am getting old. So yeah, i would file for divorce. I did my 16 years of time in a worthless marriage, not one more day will I live another lie. Cheers!