Falling in love with a married person, right or wrong?

Tsk.. tsk.. tsk... Don't they know that it si one of the ten commandements given by God to Moses. There is really no excuse to this kind of act. By nature, it is true that we are very emotional because we are humans. But God also gave us our wisdom and instelligence to know what is right and what is wrong. Imagine, having an affair with married person. Are they too desperate to find someone who is free and have a relationship rather than to a married person? It is immoral and indescent. That person is a homewrecker. Maybe falling in love is not bad, because its just normal to happen but having a realtionship is different. You are violating the law of men which will put you in jail and violating the law of God which will put you in hell.

Emotions and feelings are deceptive and can be taught. Love is a decision but it can start with a mere feelings and emotions. Falling in love with a married person is foolishness. In reality, how can one be engaged to someone who's already married? He or she is going to destroy someone else's family. Does she just want to be the "second wife" to him? Is she content with it? In Moslem religion, it is possible and allowed. But it is not in Christian countries although we can see there are many people who are just doing that. Adultery will be the case. Many people who ended up in adultery and have destroyed the other party's family, had started with a "mere falling in love" until they got into serious and deep relationship that ended up in destroying the "affected family". There are many broken families today because of that including my friend's. Adultery is a serious sin and offense against God. "Patch the hole of your dress while it is just small before it is torn and ripped apart."

oh that's one of the greatest sins on earth. i know that's hard for your friend.but as friends, you need to provide her advise and expose her to some men that have no strings attached. expose her to men's club or activities where many men are present. please tell this to your friend: Perhaps you need to see a counsellor to see why you would go for someone with whom you have little or no chance of a future. Very often it's fear of intimacy. In any case, getting involved with a person who is married is at best chaotic and at worst fatal. Watch Crime TV sometime.

It is always wrong and never "true love" to become involved with a person who is committed to the covenant relationship of marriage. God, who ordained marriage as a lifelong covenant, is clear in delineating adultery as a destructive betrayal. "Falling in love" with someone else's husband or wife is really falling in lust and is a desecration of the entire family. No good can ever come of such self-deception and the breaking and destruction of a family. The consequences to the children, especially, are lifelong. The family is the basic unit of society, and each time it is broken, it becomes another tear in the fabric of society. Divorce is a major cause of poverty and crime. Love is not like that; it is patient, kind and does not harm innocents. It puts the needs of others first and encourages good character, even in the "object of one's affection". Loyalty and fidelity are qualities to be preserved and not demeaned. Breaking of vows is a terrible example for children and heartwrenching for the abandoned partner. True love is not "eros", but "agape", the highest form of "love". It does not demand its own way or NOW, but is patient and sacrificial.

Love sometimes indiscriminately. Love can come at any time, anywhere. In fact, we can fall in love with a married man. Who makes trouble is if we are too far in that feeling. We can get hurt, because we know that the people we love is already married. We also can not expect that he will choose us, and leave the wife / husband and family. We could be destroying the happiness of others. That's a big sin. We also considered the surrounding community, that we are a home wrecker others. We do not want to, instead, is considered the destroyer of other households. Love can love anyone, but there must be limits, and see, people we love is already married or not. Do not get too caught up in feelings of love, especially to those who are married and have families.

There is absolutely no such thing as love or hetred without any reason or cause. No matter the love is ture or not,this behaviour cannot be accepted.I'm a traditional girl,and I convince that if I fall in love with someone,I always have the idea to get marriage with him.In this modern time,so many people make use of loving with some rich men(who mostly are attached) to get material comfort.They don't realise that this behaviour not only wreck other people's family,but also ruin themselves future as well.So look before you leap.But if you had alreay love this kind man,ask yourself whether or not he can give you happniess,that's not mean to money,house or limousine,but those spiritual feelings.

Yea it most certainly can be real and true love BUT its not a smart idea really UNLESS the married person isnt happy and is planning on seperating to be with the other person..Of course there are better ways to go about it mind you but sometimes things just happen ya know... I think the big thing is what the marriage is like...maybe they are on the verge of seperation or the marriage is failing and there is no chance of repairing it ya know...I dont think its as black and white as the general population likes to think it is in all cases...

Well, the ACT of falling in love with a married person is out of someone's control--so I don't see THAT as being right or wrong. BUT acting on those feelings? Completely wrong. There is absolutely NO excuse for affairs. Happy marriage or not--love or lust--no excuses!!! If a married person wanted to be with someone else they need to GET A DIVORCE before doing anything!

hi friend .. may i ask something... is really normal in some other cases/most cases happening right now... to married couples...loving each other and ends up realizing that he/she doesn't feel the right love anymore??? and ending up finding true love to someone... but its already too late?? thanks!my friend..

Frankly speaking, Falling in love with aa married person which is a greatest sin at present social relationship.But falling in love whether is right or wrong! Falling in love with person is the right of every people .But at present society many people have the orther purpose to falling in love married person, for example, for geting more money ,improveing the situation of life, the satisfied lust--no excuses.

Depends on the situation. If the person never clearly states that they are ine fact married, the fault would not the fallen party. But if the person knew that the person is married, actions that might entertain love should have been avoided. Acting on those feelings is just straight up wrong. The amount of bad blood that results out of the situation could totally be avoided, if people just control themselves.

I know that love is blind but i guess loving the wrong person is not being blind at all. It's a big mistake already..learning how to control one's feelings is the key how to avoid this kind of situation.

I don't think it is wrong to fall in love with a married man. love is a kind of thing that you can't helping doing. but love also needs wit. Hurt will happened in such situation, maybe to three persons, or more persons.

i dont no if is a sinor not but it is wrong, there is alot of single people in the world y would u get involved wit a married person????

I can not say if it is real love or true love for the person who is in love with the married person, but in most cases I doubt it is true love or real love for the married person. If the married person is still with their spouse then it is likely that they still love their spouse and they are just confused and are needing something and that is why they are having an affair. As for is it right or wrong. It is never right. It is never a good thing to do and too much pain can be caused by it. There is no good reason and no good can come of being in love with a married person.

"it's not a real and true love when it comes to loving someone who's already attached" what is true love? for me falling in love with a married person is also love..there are no such thing as true love or real love as love itself is hard to define..

It would do you no good falling for a married man. There is no certainity that he would leave his wife for you. It is wron in the sight of God and man. It would do you more harm than good.

It is not being unfortunate falling in love with a married person. What is unfortunate is one's inability to stop it at the first instance that he/she knows the other is married. He/she should try NOT to go into that kind of relationship for himself/herself as it does not bring any good to all parties. It only creates trouble. It breaks hearts for those who truly love each other. Of course, it would be another story if the relationship is only for lust or money. What should be borne into one's mind is having respect for one's self, the legal partner of the other party and above all, God. We should all give respect to God's laws and obey it. Most of all, it is a sin to be involved with a married one.

Morality tells us that its inappropriate act to love a married person. And even if its what we call true love, it is still against morality. Our society doesn't approved it as well as religious teachings for Christians.

I believe we can not help who we fall in love with, however, even if you love this person you have no right to act upon it. It is not right.