I want to be there

I think that any parent who wants to stay at home for their child should try to do so. The first 5 years are the most important for a child's development and bonding experience. I am also coming off maternity leave with a newborn son. I thoroughly encourage you and your husband to stay strong while he tries the home experience. It will be hard on his psyche, but if he can commit it will make both of your days easier. You won't be so stressed at work, and you won't have to worry about daycare. Plus, your son will be able to bond with his daddy. Try not to fret about the housekeeping for the first couple of weeks. It may take some time for them to get into a schedule. A hint: Use checklists or to-do lists for the day, he might find it easier when he starts to get wary to have something to refer to. Also, try to plan a lunch or dinner or two during the week for yourselves during baby's naptime or after bedtime. It will help you guys relax and bond...couple downtime you will need while you switch roles. GOOD LUCK!!!

Although I have what I consider as a technical job. And that I have come to appreciate it. I would still love to be a stay at home dad. I like driving my kids to school, picking them up, and driving them to their after-school activities. I also like doing DIY jobs at home. I figure, I would have tons of time to do this whne the kids are at school. Unfortunately, I haven't won the sweepstakes yet, so I still have to work.