Worst week of my life
By Metromanda
@Metromanda (151)
United States
November 23, 2009 9:28pm CST
That could possibly be an exaggeration, but it felt like the worst time ever. I remember it so clearly though, the first day. A guy had just told me that he liked me, and I was thrilled. Until one of my best friends completely stopped talking to me, after she told me it was fine. The guy hadn't asked me out, and if he had, I would have said no, and not just for her, but for me too. The guy and I texted none stop, and that isn't an exaggeration. One morning, I woke up, hoping to fine a "good morning" text, and instead there was nothing. From that point, I stopped beleiving in Karma, and started believing in stupid badluck. I lsot him, and my best friend. We still dont talk to this day.
What's the worst thing that has happened to you, that opened your eyes to badluck? or Karma?
2 responses
@thuynhu (661)
• United States
24 Nov 09
I'm truly sorry to hear that you lost both of those people in your life. I can't really think of the bad luck or karma that has opened my eyes right now. But with your story it reminds me about my best friend. I had a guy best friend and well we were real close, but it was never nothing like that. We both had a boyfriend and a girlfriend. And crazy enough as much time as we spend with our partners, they were both jealous of the other person. It really sucked for us. And well my friend and I had made a promise that we would never quit being friends over our partners. I mean we were friends before we met them. Next thing I knew everything went downhill. It was real late one night I was staying over at a good friend's house and my best friend calls me and tell me we can't be friends anymore. What made it worst was when I asked if he could tell me why. The only thing he said was he had been thinking about it and that was it. I was so crushed and hurt like nothing else. I cried and cried. I told my other really good friend cause it was usually a trio and he was in shock. I told him just forget about him and I didn't want to talk to him anymore. But my best friend ends up calling me a week or two later apologizing. He explained the whole thing and I understood a little bit. The thing that really got me was when he told me he was talking to his girlfriend and told her that he was wondering why he hadn't heard from me and she had to remind him that he told me we were no longer friends. But things worked out between us and he's still my best friend til this day. So I guess what I'm saying is just don't know maybe she'll call you and if not maybe you should try to give her a call or if it's easier for you send her an email. Best of luck to you.
@Metromanda (151)
• United States
24 Nov 09
Im really sorry that happened, but im glad you guys are friends again. I think ill take your advice and call her. Thanks :]
@MissKatPegasus (155)
• United States
24 Nov 09
If your friend is a truely good friend, she'll get over this guy liking you. Hopefully you're young enough that you're not like going to get married to him or anything. Drama is no good for anyone so I hope it works out for you. Guys should never get in between you and your friends. They'll be there for you when guys leave you.
