Have you ever said "I hate you" to your love?

Like other curses, "I hate you" hurts your love, and you may regret for what you say especially when he shows sweet and cute reflection. When we are angry, take a deep breath, or count from one to ten or more. Choose the right words to express yourself. "Have a second thought" sometimes helps to come to a better result. Always think about the right time, place and manner when you are irritated. And your smart behavior will affect the other party in a positive way.

Why should I hate someone I loved...?If ever I would someone, I would never tell him/her that I hate that person..It hurts much if you hear that word.=(

Hi Agonyaunt69, I haven't been to mylot for a while, and your message is the first one i saw, it's very ture feeling. I don't remember saying" i hate you" to my love, but i called him "lier!" once, and that was 1 years ago, we nearly broke up that time, but we finally make it through and we are going to get marry next week. Thank you for sharing this with us!

Hi agonyaunt69! You man knows how to calm you down when you are angry. Yes I agree your man is romantic somehow... To answer your topic, yes I did tell my husband several times that I hated him... whenever he does something bad to me or whenever he made me feel angry. I tell him that... Sayingthat doesn't mean that I don't love him anymore, what I mean about "I hate him" is I hate what he did... It is not him but his actions... And I know he understand that... Wishing you happiness too agonyaunt69! Have a nice day!!!

Hello Agonyaunt69. I really love what you have written. I remember several years ago, I met with my boyfriend. When we quarrelled with each other, I shouted to him,"I hate you". Actually I felt very sad when I said so. I guess that is because I loved him. However, we departed later for some reason. When I meet him in the same city now, I do not get angry with him for what he did any longer. And of course I will not say "I have you" to him any more. But I think this is because I do not care him now. After reading your discussion, I get to know, we only hate the person we loved. If you love some one, don't hurt him or her by saying "I hate you".

"i hate you!" such a mean and very hurting words to hear and even to say! however, i have never ever said those words to anybody special to me.. yet, i have heard those words addressed to me before.. it was a very vocal and frank moment from a friend, but it is better that i have known what my fren felt towards me..you can say that i may be insensitive when i heared those words, nonetheless it was a very melting moment of my wholeself.. still,on the other hand i had accepted it. it might be true or not, but life must go on with love and affection. if one person said so.. just dont dwell on it..

I have never said "I hate you" to my boyfriend, and I hope that I never have to say that word. I love him so much that I could never dream of hating him. Sure, I am sometimes annoyed by his flaws, but it doesn't mean that I hate him. We all have our flaws, right?

Hi, Agonyaunt! Welcome to myLot! I never said that words to my hubby, but when we have a quarrel or big fight and didn't talk to each other, I would not feel good about it especially when he left the house for work or I went somewhere. What your boyfriend told you was right. Life is too short. It may sound cliché, but that's the fact of life. We should appreciate what we have now and never say or do the things that may hurt the persons we love until it's too late.

Yeah, I think your love is very sweet, if only you sat" You hate him", but he didn't angry. I remembered the hurt from my boyfriend, he hurt me deeply, and I said" I hate you" to him loudly, at that time, when I said this word, my heart broken, it wasn't "I love you" like your love said, I really hate him.I realized the hate from my bottom of heart.

hi friend,i remember the incident,whenever my hubby got angry on me ,he used to keep telling that"i hate you".But i never use this sentence to him,even if he say "i hate you " also ,in turn i will say "I love you".It does it mean that he really hates me,sometimes you have show your angry to someone,so you can share it or shout it with someone you love alone,because they can alone understand you better than others.Finally he will some to compromise :-).

We're just saying "I hate you" on our partner for some cases that we don't like to encounter. But deep inside, you really love each other. It may be bad sometimes when one of the couple is in a middle of something that make him/her depressed. Our anger would never remain in our partner in life. That's what I thought.

OWWWW its so sweet ^^..its nice to hear that you loved your beloved fiancee???husband ^^cheers to that

that a romantic experience, well in my opinion if we are in mad condition, better not to say "I hate you" to your couple. But I prefer ask him why he do that to you, and always try to make you angry. The key is just communicate each other and show your love with expression. Just be more patience, but i know that it's hard for most of woman, because it has the character that woman prioritize her feeling than her mind when facing any problem. Because i am a man, then i will be more understanding my couple, more mature and more patience so i can avoid major problem in my life. And i also always said that i love her and implement that word with my attitude.

So sweet of your love to remind you that what you felt isn't really hate...and yes, no matter how you get angry with your love one, you can never felt any hatred to a person, upset maybe but then love will conquer all this. I too sometimes thought I hate my husband for leaving me alone. He's working abroad and it's quiet so upsetting that 2 months after we just got married, he flew away and have not come back yet for almost 2yrs. now, we don't have a child yet. The past few months so many had happened, and I'm so scared and felt so alone. I longed for his comfort, really. He's voice in the phone isn't just enough. Oh, how I wish to say "I hate you" to my husband... but then my heart could not bear to say it, and so my mind. I just love my husband very much, I have prepared this biggest part of my heart for him, and perhaps I'll just be more understanding in our situation, afterall, what he did is just for our future too. To my husband: remember I will never hate you, coz hatred don't have a place in my heart, only love. Papart, I will always love you for the rest of my life, always, now and forever. And to all who have found their love: just love all the way, it's a great experience of all!

That is a very romantic experience between you and your lover. I also want to go with you that instead of saying "I hate you" it better to say "I love you" because they say that the more you hate the more you love that person. Anyway, basing as well on my experience, this is absolutely right.