Equally in love in two persons... is it possible?

Philippines
November 24, 2009 3:56am CST
Do you think it is possible to be equally in love in two persons at the same time? have you ever heard that from your bf/gf? or experienced? Please do share here, your ideas would benefit people who's facing these kind of situation.
6 responses
• Malaysia
24 Nov 09
hi raisinwine, in my opinion, it is not possible..love is abstract..we can't even tell how much do we love somebody, then how can we tell that we love 2 person equally? loving 2 different person is possible but, loving equally..no i don't think so.. :) have you experienced it before??
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
nope... I just heard someone told me that..hehe :) Maybe you can be in love with two person but there is always one who you love more... your feelings for them will not be equal... that is what other people here have said.
• Malaysia
25 Nov 09
i've experienced it myself..lol.. just kidding.. :)
@romania2 (237)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
I don't think it is possible to love two people equally, whether or not we are talking about romantic love. I have no experience with this. I've never loved any two people equally (in romantic terms). I also wasn't at the receiving end of this kind of "love". As for my ideas about this, usually it is the "second" person who is loved more. Because if you already truly loved a person, you wouldn't need someone else.
@viperuz2 (68)
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
I dont think so.. One of them is loved more..
@codris (781)
• Italy
24 Nov 09
no it's impossible, you can't have two persons in the same time, it's only a way to trik them both, if you want a person you have to decide and quick, or maybe you will lose them both. I can only love a person, i'm serious person so i can't only think the possibility to love someone, i taked my responsability choosing one person and i have to give her all that i can. Only thinking about it it's a lack of respect. this is what i think about love.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
Its not possible and its not right, When i had a numbers of GF way back 90's, I have one whom i truly love.
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
hello raisinwine.. i dont think that is possible.. first, you can never weigh your love given to someone.. love cant be measured at all.. so how can you tell that you are equally in love with two persons?? and if you love someone, it is not because of what he looks like or what you like about him.. love is somewhat unexplainable.. you can never can tell why you love someone.. it just happens.. in your case, i think it may be possible that you are just liking their company and if you dig dip to think about it i think you will be surprised to find out that you only love one of them.. :) best of luck to you.. :)