An unsaid pain
By debamishra
@debamishra (13)
India
November 24, 2009 2:42pm CST
I remember when I joined my college I fell in love with a girland proposed her. She also resiprocated. All the time we used to share our happiness, sorrows. The days were passing smoothly. Smoothly 5 years past as if it was just yesterday. After my graduation I joined an MNC Bank and except on Sundays and holidays I was unable to give her time. But everyday I used to call her and had long telephonic conversation. Somehow an year passed and I got promoted due to my dedication. I was really happy and I approached her for our marriage. But the answer I got from her was really surprising and shocking. She boldly denied. She blamed me that you are unable to give me time so getting married to you is having a boring life. rather you go forward with a girl who can tolerate you and forget me. It was really painful for me to hear. i tried to make her undersatnd that its the beggining of my career so I should be dedicated to my job, but all went into vain. gradually, she started avoiding me and stopped receiving my call. She even changed her number. It was really hurting. I approached her friend for help and they tried but all I got is failure. After couple of months I heard that she has got married. So, what you think love is only giving time, nothing else? Is love not a bonding of two hearts. still, I remeber her with a broken heart.
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@unique16 (1531)
• United States
1 Dec 09
Hello Debamishra,
She may need more time from the person (what I mean more on e on one time) yes carreer does take time to establish but for some females that what more attention for there person and to know she is valued while you are going through this. Some people need people at the hip or can only take distance once in while and not long stretches etc... or like someone else said here she may have found someone else along the way and did not know how to tell you knowing how you felt towards her.
It is very hard to recover from a broken heart. It takes time and lots of it and talking to people here on mylot and your friends and family. Getting different perspective on the siutation helps you focus on better life for you and your future partner....
Sincerely Unique16
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