How do you make other people happy?

Philippines
November 24, 2009 5:35pm CST
What do you do when you have a very sad friend?
3 responses
@tonysati (49)
• India
19 Feb 10
I dont have a lot of friends, but if some one is unhappy I keep him also as long as he does not come to me for HELP, And I always to to help upto my extent... I will tell you a story: One of my friend wanted some money- Rs 5000 .. u know why... he was short of money on his HOLIDAY... and I had limited money...I borrowed money from my friend so that I could give my friend the amount he needed.... and I transfered funds into his account... And guess what it has been about 6 years and he has not yet returned that money, But still I help friends always whenever they need me ... I DONT KNOW WHY I DO THAT
• Philippines
1 Mar 10
Whoah! I can perfectly relate with that. In one way, I am very much like you when it comes to helping friends to the extent. And even if I have bad experiences like you do, I still can't stop myself from helping others. That is sooo good and it feels awesome to help others. But I think we should learn how to limit our generosity.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Nov 09
hi invisiblelady I would just be there for her and listen to her.I would find out why she is sad. if it was something that could be fixed I would help her to fix the problem. If not I would try to make her laugh by reading funny jokes and laughing with her.she would have to laugh and that would make her forget her troubles for awhile. I would also suggest that she let God handle the problem and let go of it.Let go and let God.
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
Yeah--people like you who have the ability to make a sad person smile is good. Life is something we have to deal with seriously but that doesn't mean that we don't have the right to smile and laugh.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Nov 09
As far as I'm concerned, If my friends are in low sprit , I may tell some jokes to him or her. What,s more , I mayy go to invite him or her too have some lunch which we can free ourselves . This way usually works well.For me ,I just do it like this. Happy mylot.
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
You're a sweet person. Some friends really need to laugh when they're sad.. It's nice to know that you can make your friends happy that way.