Someone gave me a hateful glare and I loved it...
By sanuanu
@sanuanu (11235)
India
November 24, 2009 6:49pm CST
How is it possible that someone doesn't like you at all and that person even doesn't want to see you but still you feel good. I have been into this feeling right now.
What happened was that I opened a door after knocking but a girl was standing right beside the door and she got a little collision with the door when I opened it. Well, my first reaction was to appologize to her but in reply she gave me a glare in which there was hate and hate and hate.
At first, I felt it very bad but after sometime, I thought that I am that important to that girl that she hates me. That means she cares about me, isn't it?
Strange, am I into certain mental disease!? LOL!
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18 responses
@celticeagle (167071)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Nov 09
I AGREE! She must care to some degree to spend the energy looking at you at all! You were thinking right and obviously she was on a weird trip of some kind. My ex used to tell me I could express my feelings very well by a look. I have been told I am very passionate with my eyes. I guess so.
@celticeagle (167071)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Dec 09
People are who they are! If someone is negative and gives these looks I would certainly stay away from them.
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@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
26 Nov 09
Oh I was here only...in fact its been a long time I'm seeing you!
@balasri (26537)
• India
25 Nov 09
You sure got a point there. The hating girl is definitely better than a smiling person with a dagger behind his back. I think that it is a good attitude of your liking the people with honest expressions. Well they girl might have spat out the venom that instant and become clean without any grudges the next moment. Or perhaps you have decided at that particular moment about how to deal with that girl which would have saved your precious time on contemplating on how to behave with her and could have brought the peace and happiness you have mentioned.
Spread a smile
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
25 Nov 09
There are two reasons why I feel that it was specially for me because the first look that I saw her on her face when she wasn't looking at me was like having a smile but as soon as she recognized that it was me behind the door, it got changed within a fraction of a second.
Well, why am I thinking of these things because I don't think I can ever have that much courage to talk to her again!
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
26 Nov 09
Okay...It’s like this...You either have a strange mental disease or you are dreaming! (LOL) Do you think that the girl gave you such a hateful stare because she secretly fancies you and has this love hate thing going? Or maybe she really likes you and she’s mad at herself for it because she fears she may not be good enough for you? Could be...Or not!
Mind you she paid attention and any attention is better that none!
Mind you she paid attention and any attention is better that none!1 person likes this
@froggieslover (3069)
• United States
26 Nov 09
Sounds like you may have made a friend LOL...my mother in law has always told me to "kill them with kindness" because that bothers them more than giving them dirty looks back or acting rude. It sounds like this girl does care about you especially to give you such attitude LOL
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
26 Nov 09
Hi, sanuanu! I am like this at times. If you hate me then I must be that important in their eyes. I am glad that you think positive when it comes to certain situations that you come into contact with in your life. Cheers to you! Live your life and continue to not let anyone make you feet bad about yourself.
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@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
25 Nov 09
I initially agreed that you may have some kinf of mental disease but then I looked into your reasoning and as weird as it sounds ,I guess I found some logic in it.I guess when someone hates you for something good like the way you look then I guess it may give you a boost to your confidence and I guess that is what you wer efeeling when she looked at you lol .Should I wish you more hateful stares or maybe at some point it may get to you lol.
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@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
25 Nov 09
It is possible that we fall into such incidents without intention. In such cases, better to have a second thought, have I done anything to bring about inconvenience, or have I say anything unintentional to lead to offence. As long as we keep our goodwill, the misunderstanding will sooner or later be lifted.
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@paleorainy (630)
• Italy
25 Nov 09
Did you consider the possibility that she has nothing against you but already had problems/issues on her own and was just in a bad mood. So that anybody she'd meet would get a glare, not just you?
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
I am still in that situation now but I feel good about it I don't mind at least I know she doesn't like if given a chance talking to her I will really thank her for being true to her self not liking me. Its better to be treated that way than someone being good infront of us but will only backbite us when we are not around because they don't like us. Remember we can never please anybody will just be true to our self & not pretend to be someone else so that they know who really are us.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
25 Nov 09
Thanks a ton for stopping here and giving me a response. I realy liked it.
You may be right because at first, I was also very very angry but again since I have no girl in my life, so I feel that even if someone is hating me, I am in someway special to her! Ha ha ha
@dede58 (11)
• Canada
25 Nov 09
believe me she doesn't care about you, what probably happen is that she was in her bubble and since you bump her by mistake she was simply disturb by what just happen, to many people live in their bubble not aware of what is going on, and you do not have any mental disease, just a bit too much over analictic that is all.
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
22 Dec 09
Hello my friend sanuanu Ji,
I find something natural in that girl. Remmeber, Lotus is grown in shallow muddy/filthy pond, Old sandlewood provides cooless to dreaded poisnous snakes whirlingaround it by giving them relief, Rose has many thors and there may be many more. Please take a lead andstep out gracefully to welcome her.
May God bless You and have a great time.
@scififan43 (2434)
• United States
30 Dec 09
Yes it is possible that she is giving you some mixed signals. but you must becare of what her intentions are. I think that realy what happem was that she was angry that you open the door on her. but then again she could be attacted to you and may have tired to give you a sgin and maybe that is why you feel good.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
26 Nov 09
My friend, I am starting to worry about you! I imagine the woman you accidentally hit with the door was frustrated already about something and her frustration became worse. She does not care about you enough to hate you as you alaready know, silly thing that you are. I am more concerned that you are so happy to have attention from females that you will take even hateful stares as something to feel good about!
You need a hobby!
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@judesushanth (4)
• India
25 Nov 09
Hi, This is jude when i read the first line i thought that it was love,because love endures & bears all things & than whe i continueed to read the other lines i came to know that @ first the girl got angry with your odd behaviour while opening the door after that i think that the girl may or may not be caring you because it depends on the character.No U are appsuatly in normal condition condition.
